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A Nigerian Twitter Influencer has asserted that a man who places his mother above his wife is not ready for his marriage to work.
The NFT Guru known as Drey said ones wife is more important and men must ensure that they explain this in clear terms to their mum.
He stated this via the microblogging platform, as he further advised men against allowing their mothers to live with them, saying they should only be allowed to visit occasionally.
Drey sparked reactions with the tweet which read; “Your wife is more important than your mother and should be at the apex of your priority chain. You can beat about the bush about it, I chose to be blunt about this.
If you think otherwise, no matter your age you are not prepared for marriage. Always make this clear. Define these positions openly and directly to your mother to avoid unnecessary hiccups in the future. Trust your mom to understand. It doesn’t mean you stopped loving her. Clearly defining these things and setting boundaries can save a lot!
Also, let your mother stay in her house if you are not running an extended family like the royals. She can visit, but her stay shouldn’t be too long enough to cause friction except it is extremely necessary. I prefer you and your wife to do the visiting and be brief.
Love your mom as a child should love his mother, but don’t let it interrupt your marriage negatively. I have witnessed mothers ruin homes because they want to own their baby boys for life. Or better still don’t get married. If you have to, do it right!“
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