1. He will not rush into sex
She will not feel any pressure to have sex with him because sex is not all he is after. After all, if they will have a future together there will be plenty of sex for them ahead.
2. He will ask too many questions
A man who is interested in a woman will study her. He will want to know who she is, why she is and how she does things. She will feel searched out, women love a man showing interest.
3. He will handle her past
A man keen on building her future will seek to understand her past, her past explains why she is the way she is. Her battles will become his battles, her joy his joy.
4. He will not pretend
A serious man has no time to pretend to be a man he is not, he wants her to know him for who he truly is.
5. He will build her
Because he sees her in his future, as his wife; he will not hesitate to correct her when she wrongs, confront her when she strays, direct her to opportunities or challenge her to be better.
6. He will hint at a future together
If she carefully listens, she’ll notice him hinting at a future together whether directly or indirectly. He will ask hypothetical questions that suggest a husband and wife scenario, trying to pick her mind on what her desires about marriage and parenthood are.
7. He will not spoil her at the expense of her future
A man who is working on a stable future will not waste his wealth today just to please the woman. He will not take a loan to impress her or go into debt to win her. He would rather enjoy today with her within his limit as he invests in a better future.
8. He will allow her to be love to him
A man who is serious about love will allow himself to be vulnerable to the woman to empower her to show him love. When he is lost, discouraged, down, in need of assistance, broke or hurting he will lean on her and confide in her. Her love will be the oasis he runs to.
9. He will appear as a father figure and husband
The more she looks at him the more he will look like a husband and father in waiting. He will handle her like his wife even though they are not yet married. Faithfulness will be unheard of, disrespecting her will not be an option.
10. He will include her in his decision making
Because he wants her to have a stake in his future, he will seek her opinion before making a move.
11. He will get to know her family and friends
He will slowly fix himself in her friends and family circle. He wants to appear as the man making in roads to her heart, he will not hide from the people he could be interacting with a lot in the future.
12. He will introduce her to his inner circle
A serious man will show her to his people, she will slowly get to know his friends, his siblings, where he hangs out, where he comes from.
13. “He will better himself”
More and more the woman will become the source of inspiration to him, her coming to his life will usher in a better him. It’s not that he wants to merely impress her, but that he feels she is worthy of his best.
14. He will not talk only about sex
Yes, he will make no apologies for finding her sexy, she will know she turns him on; but sexual matters will not be all they talk about. He will be the go to person about any topic, he will even make her know more about herself, he’ll be the one man who knows her inside out and still chooses to stay.
15. He will want to know her dreams
A man serious about a woman’s future will interrogate her dreams, he will want to know her vision so that he may support it. He will want to know what is special and close to her heart.
16. He will be easy to talk to
He will earn her trust. He will demonstrate to her that she has no reason to hold back any information from him no matter how painful or difficult. He’ll not make her feel judged, petty or condemned.
17. He will mark his territory
There will be a jealousy or protective nature about him. He will want to know if there is another man posing a threat and will be sure to show other men that he is the one closest to her. There will be a protective look he will give to on looking men, the lion in him will not shy from giving a roar.
18. He will make time to be with her
Whatever we value we make time for. He will not make her feel she is the only one interested but will initiate conversations, ask her out and miss her greatly or feel bad if for one reason or another they can’t spend time.
19. “He will make a lot of physical contact”
Men are not touchy people but they become so when wanting to secure a woman. He will insist on hugging her, he’ll find his hand brushing her skin, holding her waist. When she and him walk their bodies will bump on to each other showing comfort and trust. Read his body language.
20. His stare will have a look of wonder
She will catch him staring at her with a look of awe, a warm look captured by her beauty and wanting that beauty all to himself.
21. His face will have a sense of good mystery
There will be questions on his face. She will feel at peace with him but sense there is something more he is not saying. Questions such as: when do I propose to her? Am I doing a good job loving her? Does she know how much she means to me?
22. He will feel bad about letting her down
A man wanting permanent love with her will feel bad about letting her down, disappointing her, offending her or falling short. He knows he can’t be perfect but it hurts knowing she hurts even the slightest bit because of him. He will be quick to say sorry.
23. He will treat her like his Queen
She will be special to him. Period!
24. He will not be quick to say I love you
A man who is serious about love will not rush in to saying those three words. He knows the weight and honor of the words “I love you” and will not say it so cheaply. When he says it he means it and will take responsibility for it every day till the end.
25. He will bring out the wife in her
This man will have a unique way of bringing out a side in her that other men can’t. As she sees a husband in him, she sees day by day a wife in herself.