Nollywood actress Tonto Dikeh has spoken about her new mindset since turning 40.
The mother of one revealed that she doesn’t make shallow requests again and is always specific about what she wants. She said her needs and wants come from a place of self-awareness, wisdom, and alignment.
She stated that she is far too intentional to leave her desires vague, and when she brings something before God, she gives Him a detailed A-to-Z breakdown of what she wants to manifest.
“I don’t know what I am looking for, but I feel it when I find it.
This is a dangerous place to be in life(mentally, emotionally, and even spiritually)
It’s not a healthy state of mind, even though it seems to work for some people.
I’m far too intentional to leave my desires vague. When I bring something before God, I give Him a detailed, A-to-Z breakdown of what I want to manifest.
For example, if I’m asking for a job, I’m specific.
What salary I want, my preferred working hours, the kind of environment I’ll thrive in, and even how I want my superiors to treat me.
At 40, I don’t make shallow requests. My needs and wants come from a place of self-awareness, wisdom, and alignment”.


A day ago, Dikeh made a public announcement revealing that her number one love language is food. The mum of one reflected on turning 40, noting how she was surrounded by so much love, sound health, good food, good memories, and more.
Kemi Filani reported on June 8th that the movie star hit the 4th floor and had penned a powerful note to herself. She described herself as phenomenal and appreciated herself for being consistent, strong, brave, and more. She also praised herself for taking care of herself, choosing to heal over hiding, grow over ugly, and grace over grudge.
The controversial actress had bragged about the gifts she received on her birthday. She revealed that she got two cars, over $290k in dollars, two Kekenapeps, 15 goats, two stubborn cows, perfumes, bags, shoes, and more. Dikeh noted that since she changed her circle and mindset and stopped playing small, she doesn’t recognise where God is taking her.
Despite the extravagant gifts, Dikeh said the best was the written birthday note she received from her son’s schoolmate. She stated that the letter is the only gift that holds dear to he heart as she claimed that she cried nonstop for an hour after receiving it.