There is no special reward for being marriage material, Akosua and florence are example – Ohenewaa

According to report by Thebbcghana daily on Wednesday 21, 2026, Lawyer Mary Ohenewaa has advised women to avoid losing their identity, happiness and sense of self in the course of marriage, urging them to prioritise their emotional well-being while building healthy relationships.

According to her, marriage should not require a woman to sacrifice her peace of mind or personal identity simply to prove that she is a devoted or “good” wife. She stressed that women must be mindful of the choices they make in relationships and should not allow societal expectations to pressure them into enduring situations that negatively affect their well-being.

Lawyer Ohenewaa cited the stories and experiences associated with Akosua Serwaa and Florence Obinim as lessons that women could reflect on when navigating marriage and relationships. While acknowledging that every marriage comes with its own challenges, she cautioned women against normalising or tolerating toxic behaviour simply because they want to preserve their marriages.

She explained that constantly putting a partner’s needs above one’s own, especially in situations involving emotional distress or unhealthy treatment, can gradually cause a woman to lose confidence and her sense of identity.

The lawyer therefore encouraged women to know their worth and maintain a strong sense of individuality even after getting married. She noted that being a wife should complement a woman’s life rather than completely define who she is.

She further urged women to cultivate their own interests, values, goals and support systems, stressing that personal fulfilment remains important regardless of marital status.

Her message was ultimately centred on self-worth, independence and emotional strength. She encouraged women to understand that their value does not depend solely on having a husband or maintaining a marriage at all costs.

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