My wife is addicted to p*rn and cheating — Man cries

I never thought my marriage would reach this point. Although I still live under the same roof as my wife, I increasingly feel like a stranger in my own home. The emotional pressure, confusion and constant distress have left me struggling to cope.

My wife and I have been married for eight years, but the past five years have been extremely difficult. According to the husband, his wife developed what he describes as a serious dependence on pornography and increasingly demanded that their relationship revolve around sexual expectations he could not meet.

Initially, he believed the situation was temporary and hoped their marriage would eventually return to the way it was before. Instead, he says the problem became progressively worse and began affecting his emotional and physical well-being.

He also alleges that his wife has repeatedly been unfaithful. According to him, she has had relationships with other men and has blamed him for not meeting her expectations. He claims to have confronted her about the alleged affairs on numerous occasions, but says his concerns have largely been dismissed.

The husband said he once went along with some of his wife’s demands in an effort to preserve their marriage, but the pressure eventually had serious consequences for his health. He suffered a heart attack last year and was subsequently advised by his doctor to avoid activities that could place additional strain on his health.

Despite that warning, he says the problems within the marriage have continued. He alleges that his wife has continued seeing other men, leaving him emotionally overwhelmed and uncertain about the future of their relationship.

Their financial circumstances have also contributed to his feelings of insecurity. He earns about GH₵6,000 monthly, while their accommodation costs around GH₵2,000. Many of the family’s major assets, including their vehicles, are connected to his wife’s financial resources.

The husband explained that his wife comes from a wealthy family and that he previously worked for her father before they began their relationship. He said she was initially calm and supportive, but believes her behaviour changed significantly after they had their child.

He says he has made numerous sacrifices to keep the marriage together but now feels mentally and emotionally exhausted. His health, relationship and sense of self-worth have all been affected.

Despite everything, he remains concerned about their child and the promises they made when they married. He says he still wants to find a way forward but is no longer certain how much longer he can endure the situation.

He is now seeking advice on how to protect his health, address the breakdown of trust in the marriage and determine the best path forward for himself and his child.