4 Effective Ways to Deal With Her Playing Hard to Get

If you like a girl, is she playing hard to get or is she just not that into you? Dating is more like a game, no matter how much we glorify it. There are some signs you can look out for that will help you work out if she is serious or not.

Once you’ve established that she is, indeed, playing hard to get, here’s how you can play your cards right.

1. Give a little more effort 

Texting and instant messaging is forgivable the first few days, but you can’t get your first date with smileys alone. The trick is to express genuine interest in her life. Being ready to listen if she’s upset or excited about something could show her that you’re really sincere.

2. Be confident but not over confident 

Be yourself with a sense of self-belief. Learn to gauge your confidence level and still be true to yourself. You don’t want to go overboard and come on too strong for her taste, or make yourself look like a poser who’s all talk.

3. Play her game 

If a woman plays hard to get, it’s a sign that she is interested in you. Make her miss you a little, now and then. Even when she says she’s testing you, she secretly wants the attention you’re giving her. She could get a little paranoid if you give her hints that she’s losing you.

4. Candidly confront her

You’ve been seeing each other for months, but it’s time to ask her out. It’s a gamble, but who knows? Women appreciate honesty and sincerity the most. She might be playing the femme fatale, but this could also show you’re determined to get her.

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