Attraction is a complicated thing and it’s not always mutual. If you want to learn how to make a girl want you, just follow these easy steps. Girls may be drawn to a guy for his personality. Yet, even if you’re a guy with a great personality, it’s easy to end up becoming just a friend instead of a lover. Being friend-zoned when you want something more is never a good thing. If you want to learn how to make a girl want you, you need to employ a few clever tactics to get the job done.
Be a good friend. Sometimes, behaving like a friend can be the easiest way to a girl’s heart. But there’s a very thin line between being a friend that she’s attracted to, and being a friend she considers a brother. If you want her to want you, be a good friend who’s there for her, but don’t always be there for her. Speak to her when she’s around. But, make sure she sees you flirting with other girls now and then too. Don’t be the friend who’s going to give a shoulder to lean on. Instead, be the friend who talks about current events and fun things.
Flirt with her. Try to spend time with her when she’s alone. If her other friends are with her, you can avoid her or just wave a hello and move on after a quick chat. The more you hang out with her as just a friend, the lesser the chances of you ever making her desire you..Spend time with her only when she’s all by herself. That’ll give you enough time to date-talk her and discreetly flirt with her. Flirt with her, make her feel warm and awkwardly nice while hanging out with you. And treat her just like you would treat your girlfriend, but don’t ever call her your girlfriend though.
Don’t be possessive. You may like her a lot and hate all the other guys that flirt with her. But you know what, you don’t own her. And she’s not your girlfriend. So never behave possessively or prevent her from meeting or talking to other guys. You’ll end up losing her because you’ll become a creepy guy. Instead, have your own life, but give her your time when you bump into her or have some alone time together. Don’t be stuck at her hip. She’ll never fall for you and you’ll end up becoming her doormat.
Be her exciting secret. As we said earlier, spend a lot of time with her and flirt with her, but do that only when she’s by herself. Create a secret relationship that no one knows about other than the both of you. By doing this, you’ll make the relationship more exciting and thrilling. Become a part of her life. Text her often at night when you know she’s alone. Talk about personal issues, and indulge in everything a couple would do. But keep the relationship a secret. Of course, that doesn’t mean when things progress you have to hide it, but in these early stages, it’s best to keep it between the two of you.
Make her miss you. Now, this is tricky but also a lot of fun. Once both of you are closer and like spending time with each other, call her every night for a week or so. And then, don’t call her one day. If she meets you or texts you the next day asking why you didn’t call, she obviously missed you and wanted to speak with you!
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