Here’s a question: Why do we feel an overwhelming emotion that makes us act like a complete fool? Let’s read about it and have more knowledge about it below.
People fall in love because they felt a connection or some sort of similarity; while some might say they felt somewhat comfortable being with a specific person.
While falling and being in love with someone makes us feel warm and fuzzy, it also has its downsides. If so, why do people still fall in love?
1. The key factor to falling in love is compatibility.
Love can feel complicated and many factors contribute to “falling in love”. Things like physical chemistry, sexual attraction, and shared interests may fuel that initial spark, but in my personal and professional experience, I have found that the key factor to both falling (and staying) in love is compatibility!
To truly fall for someone means that you have spent time getting to know them. You don’t have to know every part of their lives, but knowing enough can make you like someone. There’s a reason why dating is a stage for “getting to know each other”.
2. They complement your personality.
As cheesy as this may sound, you fall in love with the person that completes you. When their personality brings out the best in you and vice versa, that bond is something you just can’t ignore. People naturally want to be with partners who make them better people.
3. Because their flaws don’t matter anymore
All relationships undergo the “honeymoon” stage. This is the part where everything seems so perfect, and no challenge can bring you and your partner’s relationship down. But after the honeymoon stage, what happens? Different problems arise and you come to see your partner’s true colors — the flaws, shortcomings, and everything undesirable.
4. Rapidly falling in love.
It happens because we project onto another person something we admire in ourselves, even if we don’t know yet if the other person has these attributes –- generosity, intelligence, kindness, good work ethic, etc.
We immediately put the other person on a pedestal and think of them as an ideal. This projection gives both people a feeling of security and intense positive feelings for each other, long before you know what the other person is really like.
5. Slowly falling in love.
This leads to the slow formation of a bond based on mutual admiration and creates a true bond by discovering the other person has admirable qualities you hold in high regard. This love is specific to the other person and cannot be transferred to another person. This is a very thoughtful approach, not an emotional one, and is more likely to produce an enduring love relationship.
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