Many have the habits of causing emotional pains to people without realizing the lasting effect it can have on them. Below are 5 things you must remember when someone hurts or causes pain to you.
Remember they have no passion
One thing you must always remember in life that the people who causes so much pain to you have no passion and love for you. Some are ready to inflict more pain so it’s always better to keep a distance from such people.
Remember they may never be sorry for it
It’s quite funny when you’re waiting for the person who inflicted the biggest pain on you to come and apologize. People who normally inflict pains on other people may never be sorry for their actions. You can’t spend your time trying to make them feel sorry but spend it on how to heal yourself and move on.
Remember it’s not your job to teach them a lesson
After been hurt by someone, just know that it is not your job to teach them a lesson. Let nature deal with them. It is always said that the evil men do lives after them. Know that the situation is a lesson, you are not the teacher.
Remember you choose what you can do with the pain
Remember you always have the right to choose what you can do with the pain. Don’t throw back the stones they threw against you in the time of need. Gather them and build a castle. You either choose to make their actions hurt you or make you happy.
Remember hurting them will not heal you
Many have the perception that hurting the people who caused great harm to them would heal them. That is a blatant lie. Whatever we give out we create in ourselves first, don’t let pain breed inside you.
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