I am 31 years and had a relationship for 15 years with a man who is also 34years of age. 2 weeks ago I found out he was abroad, without telling me. He also was active on Tinder. When I confronted him on WhatsApp, he blocked me everywhere.
A few days later I found out I’m pregnant. I had to go to his house, since I was blocked literally everywhere. I came there and had to found out he had moved!!! I was going crazy in my head at that moment.
A few days later he unblocked and a couple days ago he came to my house to talk. He only wanted to talk about the pregnancy, not all the other stuff. I decided to still confront him, but he kept lying shameless in my face. Saying that he never went to Turkey and so on. I was crying, he gave me a tissue.. not even a hug. And he kept telling me I would have a hard time with a baby and if I thought about the consequences. There was no “us” in his mouth, only “me”.
Yesterday he asked on WhatsApp how my appointment was and I said I didn’t feel supported by him. He asked me how he could support me if I didn’t tell him anything. And he knew I never trustet him.
And then I got mad.. I said I don’t trust him since the last 2 weeks. And I said how he can expect that I do tell him everything, while he keeps lying in my face. I said: r figure out your problems, before that I don’t want to hear anything anymore.
He texted “thx, I know how you are now” and he blocked me again.
Was I too hard? A few hours later I emailed him and apologized. Saying that I said those things in the heat of the moment but that I need an honest conversation, without lies.
I don’t know what to do now, still being blocked and pregnant with him. Was I so rude? I don’t know what to do now. When we had arguments before he would sometimes give me the silent treatment and that could last for 2 weeks. I always am the one who apologize. I really don’t know what to do anymore.
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