Have you been chatting with a guy over text and he doesn’t seem as interested as he used to? If a guy thinks you’re messaging him too much, he might back off and stop trying as hard. So will you get his attention back if you stop texting him? This trick can be a great way to reel him back in, so keep reading for everything you need to know about playing hard to get so he reaches out at any chance he gets!
- Reaching out less rather than cutting him off makes a guy miss you. You don’t have to completely stop texting to get his attention—just slow down how often you reach out. Shoot him a text once or twice a week instead of every day so he has a little more space. Since you aren’t messaging as often, he’ll be curious about what you’re up to and want to chat.[1]
- If you stop texting him completely, he may think that you’ve moved on and aren’t interested in him anymore.
2.Double-texting a guy might seem like you’re over-eager for his reply. If a guy still hasn’t texted you back yet, resist the urge to ask him where he is or if he saw your message. There’s a chance that he’s actually busy and can’t get to his phone, so give him a chance to respond. Once he does reach out again, you don’t have to respond to him right away.
- Make him wait around the same amount of time between messages. He’ll probably realize that he wants to chat more often than that.
3 Put the ball in his court so he has to make the first move. If you’re always the one to reach out first and start the conversation, try waiting it out. When he notices that you haven’t said hi or checked in, he’ll start missing how fun it was to message you and shoot you a text.
4Leave some of his messages on read.When you’re unpredictable, he’ll get more excited when you reach out. If his texts aren’t super time-sensitive, then it’s okay to read his text without responding. Put your phone on silent or turn it off so you aren’t tempted to check your phone or reach out to him. He might even text you again to really try and get your attention.
- Later in the day, you can always respond that you were busy so it doesn’t seem like you completely ignored him.
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