It is more common for a male boss to boldly tell a female subordinate his love or feeling for her. It is also fairly easy, for a female to boldly express her love or interest to a man in a higher rank at work. What is it like for a male subordinate to express his feeling of love for his female boss?
Well, the introduction of girl child education, feminism, and advocating for female leadership has made relationships at the workplace more dynamic than they use to.
There are lots of female bosses in top positions due to their intelligence and the opportunities given to them. Meanwhile, their intelligence and opportunities do not erase their beauty or the factors for attracting men. In fact, their intelligence and current position even make them more likable and lovable by men.
Most men in organizations have found themselves bolding up and confronting their love for their female bosses. Most of the time, this leads to unwanted circumstances. Most female bosses feel insulted even when the love from their subordinates is genuine.
Everyone wishes to be loved, therefore, irrespective of one’s position, it is possible for one to welcome all forms of love, romantic ones. It is possible for male subordinates to love their female bosses. It is, therefore, possible for subordinate males to genuinely tell how they love their female bosses without getting them offended. The following are ways to respectfully acknowledge your romantic love towards your female boss.
Respect Her
As a male, you may wish to seek respect from a woman you love. In this situation, it is painfully the other way round. You would need to respect her as your boss and a female. Always talk to her with respect. Move towards her with respect and give respectful suggestions.
Let Her Know You Only Listen To Her
As a subordinate, always tell her where you are going. Whenever she opposes obey her and follow her decision. Also, intentionally give wrong suggestions to make her come up with all the corrections. Whenever other officers give you a directive, insist on her directives.
Before And After Work, Walk Her To The Office And Out
With a smiling face, meet her at the entrance and do your possible best to hold her bag or anything she may be carrying. Walk her to her office by leading her so you open her office door for her. As she enters her office, she may pass in front of you. This is your opportunity to compliment her. You can use her perfume, her shoes, her dress, and her hair. The compliment must be formal but funny.
After work, do well to take her bag again and compliment her on her hard day’s work. Ask if she enjoyed her lunch or breakfast. Do well to open her car door for her to sit in. Also, make sure she drives off before moving away.
Makeup Dummy Scenarios
You would need a test to specifically know that she would not be offended if you tell her you love her. Ask her questions related to a romantic relationship. So for instance, “Madam, the way you dress in your heels with your walkings on point, you are making all my colleagues fall for you”.
In the scenario of getting her lunch, you could buy an extra protein for her or a dessert. If you come with it and she asks you how come there are additions. Just say “Madam, I told the chef that, I usually come buying lunch for my girlfriend by of late she claims the meat is too small”. Leave as soon as the fun is created.
Know Her Fun Days And Be Present
Most female bosses go swimming on a Saturday. Ask her if she would be comfortable if you came along. Others play tennis. Find a way to be on the tennis court on that day. Be consistent with such occasions for four consecutive times.
Say The Words.
Addressing her with all the respect, let her know in person, that you love her work, her nature, her beauty, and her decisions.
Let her know that, what you are about to say is difficult and that, she shouldn’t be offended in any way. If she asks you to go ahead. Say, “I am in love with you and would be glad if you could give me the chance to express my love for you outside the walls at work”.
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