Four Ways To Identify Your Enemy.

If you are like most individuals, you have most people in your life, you consider enemies.

1. Look for people who talk negatively about you in a destructive manner. Friends may have a constructive criticism for you, but their ultimate goal is to help you. An enemy will use a destructive talk with the sole purpose of making you feel worse or bring you down. So choose your friends carefully otherwise, your enemy will choose you.

2. Notice who gossip about you. People who gossip behind your back, spreading malicious rumours or letting out your darkest secrets are not your friends. If you find someone who is gossiping about you, they are probably your enemies. So be careful who you trust, if someone will discuss others with you, they will certainly discuss you with others.

3. People who try to block your success. Many times your enemy will work to take credit for what you do, particularly in a work or school environment. They may also try to stop you from succeeding, so just remember this biggest slap to your enemies is your success.

4. Pay attention to the person’s body language. A person who doesn’t like you will likely lean you away from you, as well as turn their body away from you in conservation. They may also cross their arms or legs as a defence against you.If people are trying to bring you down, it only means that you are above them. Just forgive your enemy but, never forget their names. Allow your enemies their space to hate, they will destroy themselves in the process. Just remember one thing, never trust someone who is a friend with your enemy.

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