So what can couples that have chosen to separate do if they want to keep their divorce as easy as possible?
Today I give you some top tips get your marriage back for good :
It’s crucial to try and keep things calm, especially if you have children. Plan discussions at times when neither of you are rushed. And certainly don’t try to have them on a Friday night after a very long week, for example. When you’re both tired and stressed you won’t get far.
Keep focused on the fact you once shared something really good. Divorcing couples who keep this in mind tend to be kinder to each other during the breakup.
Stop the ‘blame game’ where you blame everything on your partner. Both of you played a part in the relationship falling apart.
Bring some solutions to issues to any ‘breakup meetings’. Having ideas for how to move forward (like sharing custody, dividing property, etc.) will keep your discussions constructive.
Prepare to set your boundaries if your partner uses meetings to simply have a go at you. Tell them that you’ll happily arrange another time when they’re calm – then leave. The more you set boundaries, the less they’ll take advantage when they see you if they have an axe to grind.
Use a mediation service if you’re not moving forward in your divorce or breakup.
CREDIT:S.A.Kingsley.
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