Just take for instance this interesting tweet from 2017, with which a user says he does not want to date a woman who does not earn up to 200K monthly and gets quite roasted by [not surprisingly] women.
For too long, quite a lot of women have gotten just by having attractive bodies, fine faces and nothing more.
So it seems that the reality of millennials actively seeking hardworking women, and actually placing a well-stated financial standard on them isn’t particularly sitting well with some.
And guess what? It’s absolutely OK if a woman chooses to focus solely on slaying and glowing her pretty face with nothing else going for her. There’s actually still a market for dependent women.
As I wrote in a previous article [which you absolutely need to read, by the way]:
“…there are still men that love trophy wives and stay-at-home mums but they are petering out and becoming rarer with each Saturday that passes.
“Times have changed and… far gone are the days when more men didn’t mind having women totally dependent on them.”
The modern man appreciates a woman who has something going for her. And it’ll be absolutely great if that thing is substantial.
This is not to excuse men from the responsibilities that are traditionally a man’s in the family. I don’t agree with any form of wokeness that frees men from being more financially responsible in the marriage and family.
Please guys, while you place financial demands on these women, don’t forget to still spoil them silly with the finest things and regularly blow their minds with the most thoughtful, most precious gifts.
At the same time, since loads of modern women [and thankfully, men] are seeking their marriages to be run as partnerships, women need to realise that being financially stable is one good way for them to contribute to that partnership.
Apart from that, there are well-known advantages of having your own money – power, freewill, independence, respect, financial freedom, etc.
It’s 2019 and many things have changed. More women are rejecting the idea of marrying and forfeiting their careers for marriage.
Loads of millennial women are never going to stand being a full house-wife and these are all good. It’s never a good thing to lose yourself or identity for the sake of a marriage or relationship anyway.
Just as these are pretty cool, it is also absolutely OK for a man to shun you if you are broke or if you do not meet his required standard of not-being-broke.
More men are toeing this line, this author included.
So ladies, instead of moaning and complaining about men who are vocal about wanting to have nothing to do with broke babes, just focus on bettering yourself and earning your own money so as to be better-equipped for a relationship/marriage and so you won’t be that girl who is easily bought, swayed or convinced only by money or material things.
Or in the eternally-iconic words of Small Doctor, “if you no get money, hide your face…”