You are thinking about somebody else
If you’ve been obsessively thinking about being with somebody else, you’re probably marrying the wrong person. You may not actually want to be with that other person, but they represent all of the things that are missing in your relationship.
You feel guilty around his parents
That’s probably because you know you’re going to break their hearts one day by divorcing their son. You feel bad about how invested they’re getting in you since you know deep down you’re not sticking around.
You can’t say for sure this is the right thing
If someone asks, “Are you sure you want to do this?” your answer somehow manages to be complicated. You tell that person that nobody feels 100% certain before they get married and that “relationships are complex.” If this were the right person, you’d respond with an overwhelming, “Yes!”
Conversation has already dwindled
You’ve settled into a routine of watching television and talking about the grocery list at home. You don’t feel genuinely excited about your partner coming home (if you live together).
