His Ex Is No Threat To Our Relationship, But She Makes Me Nervous [Advice Needed]

Things are good between her and her boyfriend… but for his ex who has really started to get on our heroine’s nerves.

My name is Jadee, I’m 27, I’m a final year student. I met a guy in 2008, we became friends, later we lost contact but found each other again via one of the social networks. We went to the same school, but to different departments. We chat almost every day about everything. Once, he told me a story about how he dated a girl for 6 years but had to dump her because he caught her cheating. One thing led to another, and we became romantically involved and started dating in December 2013.

All went smooth between us, but then suddenly his ex reappeared and deamanded that I leave the picture. She even went to his house and fought us both. I am confused about the whole situation. My boyfriend tells me not to worry, that he would not go back to her even if I quit our relationship. His family members also ask me not be worried.

However, I don’t feel at ease any more, I feel like an intruder. I love him, and I know he has feelings for me, and we are good friends. All is well between us, but for the ex. She calls and texts him every day and even involves others in the matter. 

I don’t know if I should have patience and continue believing in him and in God, or should I just back out of the relationship.

I need your candid advice.