One day at a time

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    25 August 2011 Last updated at
    20:06 ET
    By Peter Bowes
    BBC News, Malibu

    Glen and Kim Campbell: “We want to enjoy life”

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    Country music legend Glen Campbell, known for hits like
    Rhinestone Cowboy and Gentle On My Mind, lives in Malibu with his
    wife Kim.

    Their home in the hills overlooking the Pacific is close to the
    singer’s local golf course, where he plays every day.

    After almost 30 years of marriage, Campbell’s fourth wife has
    been by her husband’s side during much of his hugely successful
    career. She has also endured some of the darker days caused by his
    Alzheimer’s disease.

    The 75-year-old singer is making final preparations for a
    farewell tour to say goodbye to his fans and release an album of
    new songs.

    Sitting in their living room, Kim helps to fill in some the gaps
    of her husband’s failing short-term memory.

    “I haven’t been marred with this thing at all,” says Glen. “I
    accept that I got, what’s it called?”

    “Alzheimer’s,” says Kim Campbell.

    “Alzheimer’s,” Campbell repeats firmly.

    Glen Campbell and his wife Kim
    Glen Campbell and his wife Kim say it’s important to keep a
    sense of humour about the singer’s condition

    He tries to make a joke of it.

    “When was I? I don’t remember having that,” he laughs. “I
    haven’t felt any different. What’s Alzheimer’s? That means that you
    forget things? Well you do that.”

    “We want to keep a sense of humour about it,” says his wife.
    “He’ll tell a joke and then laughs and we’ll all laugh and then
    he’ll tell it again in a few more minutes. And we’ll all laugh
    again.”

    “I like to joke and laugh,” adds Campbell. “I’ve cried and I’ve
    laughed. Laughing is better.”

    Campbell was diagnosed with the degenerative disease, which
    involves a gradual loss of memory and judgment, nine months ago.
    But unlike some other well-known victims, notably Ronald Reagan and
    Charlton Heston, Campbell says he has no intention of retreating
    from public life. At least, not yet.

    “Glen has always been open about who he is and his life. He
    enjoys making music and we want to keep doing it and we just wanted
    the fans to be aware that if he flubs a lyric or something that
    he’s got this condition,’ says Kim.

    Start Quote

    Don’t be angry, I’ve been angry and anger is not good, if you
    stay that way I feel that you die young, if you’ve always got
    adrenaline running through your system about anger”

    End Quote Glen Campbell

    “It makes it a little more difficult for him – if he has to rely
    on a teleprompter a little bit more.”

    Campbell’s new album, which he co-wrote, is a poignant look-back
    at a colourful life spent in the spotlight, and the singer’s
    current state of mind.

    The lyrics on Ghost On The Canvas reflect Campbell’s strong
    religious faith and the twilight world into which he is slowly
    retreating.

    They were co-written by Campbell’s producer, Julian Raymond, who
    kept a journal of things that the singer would say while working on
    an earlier CD.

    “They do reflect the place he is today and some of the feelings
    and emotions he has going through Alzheimer’s disease,” says Kim
    Campbell.

    One track, In A Better Place, includes the line: “Some days I’m
    so confused Lord, my past gets in my way. I need the ones I love
    Lord, more and more each day.”

    Mention of the song prompts Campbell to start singing. He trails
    off and quips: “I really like that song, you know. I hope I don’t
    forget it on the stage.”

    Addictions

    When the conversation turns to the good old times, Campbell is
    on firmer ground. His eyes light up as he talks about the big hits,
    like Wichita Lineman, which was written for him by his long-time
    collaborator Jimmy Webb.

    Singing again, he struggles a little but eventually recalls the
    song’s classic lyrics.

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    Campbell retains all his ability to perform

    “I need you more than I want you and I want you for all time.
    And the Wichita Lineman is still on the line.”

    He played for a time as a member of the Beach Boys and took part
    in countless studio sessions with the music industry’s biggest
    names – from Sinatra to Presley.

    Campbell’s career was marred in the 1970s through his addictions
    to cocaine and alcohol. He found sobriety but relapsed eight years
    ago and was convicted of extreme drunk-driving. He was sentenced to
    10 days in jail.

    Campbell refers now to the “stupid idiot stuff” he did in his
    wild days and counts himself as “blessed” to have survived.

    “I can tell you one thing that I’d like to tell everybody,” he
    says. “Don’t be angry. I’ve been angry and anger is not good. If
    you stay that way I feel that you die young, if you’ve always got
    adrenaline running through your system about anger.”

    Today, life revolves around his family, music and golf, which he
    plays every day. His current band Instant People includes four of
    his children.

    ‘Great dad’

    In rehearsal, Campbell sings and plays the guitar as if a light
    has been turned on in his head. He runs through the classics with
    relative ease, fluffing the odd line. He appears to be only mildly
    annoyed by his lapse in memory.

    Siggy Sjursen, who plays bass guitar in the band, says he is in
    awe of Campbell’s ability to perform.

    Glen Campbell's band members
    Campbell’s children Cal (left) and Ashley (centre), and band
    member Siggy Sjursen, support him through music

    “The style he’s been playing does not sit in his memory, it sits
    in his muscles and his emotions which he will always remember. [It]
    is quite astonishing to see how deep music sits – it’s not just
    your brain, it’s emotions in your flesh and spirit,” says
    Siggy.

    Instant People will be the opening band on Campbell’s
    forthcoming tour. He is scheduled to play dates in the US, and will
    spend much of October and November performing in the UK.

    “He’s always been such a great dad and we have never really
    known a day in our lives without music. It will be a terrible day
    when that isn’t around any more,” says Campbell’s son, Cal, the
    band’s drummer.

    “The best we can do is always pick up guitars and instruments
    with him and play and have fun because that’s how we know
    everything is okay.”

    Campbell has a strict medication regime. In recent months,
    according to his family, the drugs have greatly improved his state
    of mind.

    While Campbell is reluctant to acknowledge the finality of The
    Goodbye Tour, it will be his last.

    “We try not to worry about tomorrow,” says Kim Campbell. “We
    just want to enjoy each day as it comes.

    “Oh gosh, yes, one day at a time, that’s an old country song,”
    chirps Campbell, as he starts to sing again.

    “One day at a time, sweet Jesus….”

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