Opinion – Over HANCI-MAPS Adoption, Who is Deceiving Who?

Concord Times (Freetown)

Abu S. Tarawalie

4 May 2011

analysis

Freetown — The media in Sierra Leone is constitutionally charged with the responsibility of reporting the government to the people and the people to the government in a fair and just manner. It is also an ethical principle for journalists to know that credibility is a journalist’s most important asset and accuracy is the best way to protect it. These legal and ethical principles have lost grip in our daily practice as members of the fourth estate whose responsibility is to complement the other arms of government to achieve national development.

The lack of journalistic ethics in this country has been clearly displayed on the alleged involvement of Help a Needy Child in Sierra Leone (HANCI-SL) in facilitating the adoption process of 29 Sierra Leonean children to the United State of America through Maine Adoption Placement Services (MAPS).

The commencement of the Justice Adeliza Showers Commission of Inquiry which is set up by government to investigate as to whether biological parents consented to the adoption of their children by HANCI/MAPS or not has spurred so many articles, some to indict HANCI, others to exonerate the organization while others specifically aim to aid the commission with the fact. I’ve decided to write on this issue because some papers have been practicing arm-chair journalism on the issue that is capable of disturbing the peace of the state and above all to work with the latter.

However, it could be recalled that The Punch Newspaper published an article caption: “Kim Kargbo Accused by Parents of Deception…HANCI’s PR at Work to Deceive the Public?” An extract of the said publication reads: “…when the father and daughter saw each other they hugged and cried. I was overjoyed to see my daughter after a long time. She resembled the girl in the picture that was sent to me from her adoptive parents in America through Kim. After this accident Kim Kargbo, who is the Director of the NGO Women of Hope International in Makeni, asked Sheik Alimamy to go home and come back the next day”.

“When I called Kim Kargbo the morning of the next day on her mobile phone, she told me that she was in Freetown. When I called her in the evening, she told me that she was at Lungi. I straightaway concluded that I had been deceived”. Sheik went on: “Our meeting did not last for more than fifteen minutes. This woman deceived me”.

This story was published as a result of an investigative article published by Concord Times Newspaper No388 of April 7, 2011 captioned: “As Commission of Inquiry Rejects Parents… Adopted Child Jets In”; an extract of the publication reads thus: “In another development, Adama Kamara now Adama Laura Celeste Kamara – currently living in Louis Ville, Kentucky in the United State of America – was one of the twenty-nine children said to have been adopted by HANCI-SL. Concord Times learnt that the girl, who was informed that her father, Sheik Alimamy Kamara – who had denied her by telling HANCI-SL that her father was bitten by snake for her to be adopted – was visibly angry about the development when she recently visited the country”.

It could be recalled that Sheik Alimamy Kamara was one of the parents and ring leaders that was clamouring for the government to set up the commission but deliberately refused to inform the commission about the coming of her child. However, the Concord Times publication prompted him to publish the said article with the aid of the medium’s editor.

However, Kim Kargbo who believes that she has not been treated fairly with reference to the article published in the Punch Newspaper as an alleged source, mailed to publish her own side with specific reference to Adama’s visit in Sierra Leone. Adama is one of the children adopted by HANCI/MAPS. This is part one of her side on the alleged issue. This is an unedited version of Mrs. Kim Kargbo:

“As to the children who were adopted from Sierra Leone through HANCI, I have connections with some of them, merely because their parents contacted me privately. My first contact with these children occurred in 2006 when an adoptive parent in the US found me on the internet and wrote me on the off-chance that I might be able to help her children (she adopted twins) know more about the country they came from. I have corresponded with this family for 5 years and in 2007 was able to connect the children with their biological parents by letter and picture. This was a huge blessing to their children – to find out that they had living parents and siblings and to be able to make a connection with them. When the children are grown, they plan to visit their biological family, but are not in a position to do so yet. I did contact HANCI to verify that these children were the biological children of the parents who were identified, and they confirmed that they

were. Other relatives also confirmed that their twins were some of the children given to the HANCI orphanage during the war and adopted out to the United States. Through my contacts with that family in the US, other families who adopted children in that same group began to contact me.

“Adama’s adoptive mother contacted me in 2009, saying that she would like to help her daughter understand more about where she came from and who she was and asking if I could help. I helped to connect her to some Sierra Leonean groups here in the Diaspora in the US and gave her more information about Sierra Leone. On one of my visits to Sierra Leone through Women of Hope, I met Adama’s father and found out that he lived in Makeni. He was given my contact information by Dr. Roland Kargbo, who knew that I was in contact with some of the adoptive families – though he was completely uninvolved in those contacts, but he had heard about it. So, Sheik Alimamy Kamara contacted me and asked me if I had information about his daughter. I spent some time working to confirm that he was indeed the father of the girl I was in contact with and also taking time to be sure the daughter and her family wanted to have contact with him. They were shocked to find out

that Adama had living relatives in Sierra Leone. They have documents that state that her parents were both dead. I traveled back and forth between Sierra Leone and the US and would carry letters and pictures back and forth between Mr. Kamara and his daughter. He also came to my house many, many times in Makeni to receive phone calls from his daughter while I was there. I would serve as an interpreter, as Adama does not speak any Krio and Mr. Kamara does not speak any English. He and Adama also communicated by phone when I was not in Sierra Leone, although they had difficulty communicating due to the language barrier.

“Adama and her mother verified Mr. Kamara’s relationship to Adama by means of a DNA test, which I hand-carried for them and was performed by a lab in the United States. It did verify that Mr. Kamara is absolutely Adama’s biological father. Adama very much wanted to come to Sierra Leone to meet her family (her mother had since died in childbirth). We began to discuss the possibilities of her visiting. A visit was planned for June of 2010, but it was canceled by Adama’s adoptive mother in the US at the last minute because an article was released which quoted one of the HANCI parents in Sierra Leone as saying that they were demanding that their children be returned. Adama’s mother was afraid that something would happen to her daughter, as the case seemed fairly volatile, so she decided not to come at that time. I do not live near Adama in the United States, so had never met her or her mother in person until this past November (2010). We had only

communicated by phone and email, but we had developed a relationship of honesty and trust. When I was going to be in Sierra Leone for 3 months this year, Adama and her mom began to reconsider the possibility of a visit to meet her family. I asked many people about the wisdom of such a visit and we decided that it would be a positive thing for both Adama and her dad, as well as the other HANCI children and parents, if she came.

“We made the arrangements, but because the situation surrounding the HANCI case is so sensitive, we realized that news of her arrival could spark a huge influx of reporters, journalists and other HANCI parents coming to question her. She is still a child, and we did not want to put her in a situation such as that. Also, because one visit had already been cancelled, we did not want to disappoint her father. So, we did not tell anyone about her arrival until she was there. Adama arrived on March 11th and left to go back to the States on March 21st. It was customary that I would bring letters or pictures for Mr. Kamara when I would come to SL, so when she arrived, I called him and told him that they had sent something for him. He said he would come and get it. When he arrived at the house, I had him sit down in the parlour and then I brought Adama out to him and said, ‘Pa, this is what they have sent for you.’ It was a joy-filled and tear-filled

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