It is healthy to start the New Year with resolutions so that you can do things differently and better to improve the quality of your life. Whatever you are thinking about, never forget to love better this year because love is life and without love, you lose your humanity.
What is love?
Love is the hardest thing to define. It means differently to different people but the bottom line is that love is about sacrifice. It is about putting the needs of your lover ahead of you. if you help your lover to get better so do you get better because you are one flesh and he can only respond kindly to your kind acts.
Reflect on the past: This helps you to start the New Year the right way. Talk of your achievements and failures, but be quick to admit that we are human and make mistakes.
Forgive your partner for his wrong acts, show gratitude to your love. Tell him about his kind acts and forget the help you have given so that you don’t expect anything in return.
Count your blessings in your relationship and you will be amazed how you have greatly benefited from it. At the same time, let go of negatives of the past year. Negative energy from anger, bitterness and hurt will harm you. Forgive yourself, and seek forgiveness.
Have a positive mental attitude about yourself, your lover and your relationship: Your mind is your important weapon because it directs all your actions.
Your thoughts are, therefore, your assets. If your intentions are good, your behaviour is good, and you see good results. Your only enemies or friends are therefore your thoughts.
If you do not see yourself as good, you can’t love and nobody can love you. if you see your lover as good, his kind gestures get magnified in your mind and his negative acts get minimized.
Set achievable goals: stay committed to them so that you can achieve them. If you are single, desire to be in a relationship. Fact is, single life is incomplete and self-sufficiency in it is a myth. Always remember that two are better than one because they have good rewards for their labour.
No doubt scientific research has shown amazing benefits of people in relationships. They live longer and are more productive. They are less prone to sickness. They express higher levels of self-esteem and happiness. Work hard this coming year to join in the club.
If you are in a relationship, you can plan to step it up into a marriage. You can never be completely ready for marriage and you can never meet a perfect human being but you will find true commitment and intimacy, passion as you become one flesh with your lover.
The best partner for you is the one you is the one you decide to share your life with. On the other hand if you are already married, resolve to make this year special and fulfilling.
For some unknown reasons, it appears easier to start something new at eh beginning of the year. Make an effort to do something that will make you and your lover happy. Put some excitement into your relationship.
When you make your New Year resolution, start with love. Purify your thoughts and think of what is true, noble, right, pure and lovely.
Fill your heart with love. Adorn your head with sacrifice as you share your love. It is only then that you celebrate the year in the true spirit of love. Start the year with love and live a life full of love.