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They say that the worst pain is a mother burying her child. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

It must also be painful for a mother to attend a graduation and accept a posthumous qualification on behalf of her late daughter. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

This was the painful reality for Mrs Thembisile Hlatshwayo. <\/span>In an emotionally charged moment, Mrs Hlatshwayo took to the stage at the Durban University of Technology (DUT) at the weekend \u2014not as a graduate, but as a grieving mother honouring the memory of her daughter, Sinenhlanhla Hlatshwayo.<\/span><\/p>\n

With tears streaming down her face and unimaginable courage in her heart, Mrs Hlatshwayo accepted a posthumous Diploma in Information and Communications Technology (ICT): Applications Development on behalf of her daughter, who passed away just days after completing her final exams.<\/p>\n

The graduation ceremony was held at the Olive Convention Centre in Durban.<\/p>\n

The audience stood still as DUT Registrar, Dr Maditsane Nkonoane, extended heartfelt condolences to the Hlatshwayo family. A moment of silence was also observed to honour the young woman whose dream was cut short too soon.<\/p>\n

\u201cShe left DUT on the 7th of November after completing her final exams. She was home for seven days, seemed fine, and then\u2026 she was gone,\u201d Mrs Hlatshwayo said quietly after the ceremony. \u201cShe was not sick. She slept and never woke up. We still don\u2019t know what took her.\u201d<\/p>\n

Sinenhlanhla passed away on November 14, 2024, leaving behind a devastated family and a heartbroken community in Mtubatuba, northern KwaZulu-Natal. The unexplained nature of her death continues to haunt her loved ones, with no cause yet confirmed.<\/p>\n

Mrs Hlatshwayo recounted the morning she returned home from an all-night church service, only to find her daughter cold and lifeless in bed.<\/p>\n

\u201cShe was our hope,\u201d she said, her voice trembling. \u201cShe was the only one in university. We were all looking forward to the life she would build for herself and for us.\u201d<\/p>\n

What used to be a cause for celebration and hope turned into grief. Her younger son, who had been preparing to start university, is too afraid to follow in his sister\u2019s footsteps.<\/p>\n

\u201cHe told me he\u2019s scared. Scared that he\u2019ll go and never come back, just like his sister,\u201d said Mrs Hlatshwayo.<\/p>\n

Despite the pain, she made the brave choice to walk across that stage in her daughter\u2019s name.<\/p>\n

\u201cIt was hard,\u201d she said. \u201cBut I needed to do it for her. She worked so hard. That diploma belongs to her, and it had to come home.\u201d<\/p>\n

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