{"id":15976,"date":"2021-05-22T20:12:32","date_gmt":"2021-05-22T20:12:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/za\/2021\/05\/22\/stop-shaming-women-who-have-different-kids-with-different-fathers\/"},"modified":"2021-05-22T20:12:32","modified_gmt":"2021-05-22T20:12:32","slug":"stop-shaming-women-who-have-different-kids-with-different-fathers","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/za\/2021\/05\/22\/stop-shaming-women-who-have-different-kids-with-different-fathers\/","title":{"rendered":"‘Stop Shaming Women Who Have Different Kids With Different Fathers’"},"content":{"rendered":"

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According to this social media user with the handle, @Fikz_the_Cook, there some untold stories behind these situations.<\/p>\n

The post reads;<\/p>\n

\u201cStop shaming us women who have different kids with different fathers \u2026.Life happened .. And its ok if a man does not want to date a woman with kids but just don\u2019t shame us There are stories behind this ! Things did not work out as we hoped and planned !\u201d<\/p>\n

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Stop shaming us women who have different kids with different fathers \u2026.Life happened ..<\/p>\n

And its ok if a man does not want to date a woman with kids but just don\u2019t shame us <\/p>\n

There are stories behind this !
Things did not work out as we hoped and planned !<\/p>\n

\u2014 #FikzCookBookAvailable (@Fikz_the_Cook) May 22, 2021<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote><\/div>\n<\/figure>\n

The post garnered some reactions from other social media users and some of these reactions are;<\/p>\n

@Luthando022<\/strong> \u2013 What\u2019s the shame in having kids with different partners? I mean we as men are practically validated and applauded xa sina bantwana from different women. Kuthwa sandisa isduko sethu. I mean my dad\u2019s younger brother has 27 kids that he knows of(there might be more).<\/p>\n

@MissT9<\/strong> \u2013 Sometimes I wish Twitter could group people according to age and then we engage with same age group people. But that would disadvantage the matured ones from other groups<\/p>\n

@Majorciteh<\/strong> \u2013 People are weird but what I know they shame you on social media but in real life bagcina nani and loya sisi should not take this to heart my mom found someone when she had 3 kids<\/p>\n

@Smalzin10<\/strong> \u2013 Worst of all its the same guys who impregnated women and left them. So what must happen now, uhlale and not move on as a woman just cause you got kids but men can bring 5 kids in a relationship.<\/p>\n

@chester_ta<\/strong> \u2013 Yazi bayadika abanye abafana abacinga bancono kunabanye abantwana. Women go thru the most just because us men decided not to use a condom and ran ngenxa ye unplanned pregnancy. Thina bantu banothando sizohlala sinikhulisela abantwana. This is why kusithiwa sizizinja. Mnxim<\/p>\n

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