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Dear GhanaWeb,

I’ve been childless in my marriage for eight years now, and recently, my friend suggested that I pay one of those young men without jobs to sleep with me as a way of getting pregnant.

My husband didn’t approve of adoption, and he is the one contributing to our childlessness.

At first, I didn’t want to go through with it because I didn’t want to cheat on my husband.

However, after a long period of contemplation, I finally agreed. She told me it would be a way to kill two birds with one stone.

She linked me up with a guy who would sleep with me with a lot of energy and passion. Since I would be ovulating (and as you know, ovulation sex can be quite effective), she assured me that he would get me pregnant.

All I needed to do was pay him GH₵10,000 to help me get pregnant. I booked a hotel for him, just five streets away from my matrimonial home, and arranged for him to stay there for three days.

I usually meet him whenever my husband left for work. I will spend time with him before going to my workplace too.

Everything went as planned. The sex was good, the guy was a professional and he is better than my husband when it comes to knowing exactly what to do to make me reach orgasm.

He would raise the lower part of my body for like 10 minutes so as to allow the sperm swim into my body properly. Those are actually new experiences to me.

Two days after the guy checked out of the hotel, my husband returned from work furious.

I didn’t know how he managed to find out about the guy I met and everything that happened to the extent that I couldn’t deny anything again.

I pleaded with him but he refused to listen to me and kicked me out of his house. I was ashamed of myself that I couldn’t face my family, so I ran straight to my best friend’s house, the one who linked me up with the guy.

My friend agreed to let me stay with her while I continue begging my husband for forgiveness.

She is a single woman, but for the past three days, I’ve noticed someone has been calling her.

Since she hasn’t mentioned anything to me and I have my own issues to deal with, I didn’t think much of it at first.

However, yesterday morning, while she was outside and I was in the bedroom, a call came through from a number saved under a different name.

I was rushing to give her the phone when something told me to check the number. I did, and to my shock, I saw that it was my husband’s number, although it wasn’t saved under his name.

I didn’t say anything and just gave her the phone when she returned.

When she came back, I was waiting for her to tell me what my husband had said, but she hasn’t said anything up until now.

I’m beginning to think the worst, though I don’t want to believe it. I regret following her advice to cheat on my husband.

Should I confront her about what I’ve discovered? How should I handle this situation?

FG/EB

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In a shocking revelation, Ghanaian filmmaker Leila Djansi has shared a chilling story about how actor John Dumelo was nearly stabbed while filming a scene for a movie. The incident, which could have taken a tragic turn, unfolded on set during the production of a highly intense action sequence, leaving the cast and crew in complete shock.

Djansi, who has worked on numerous successful films in the Ghanaian movie industry, recounted the terrifying ordeal in a recent interview, detailing the events that led to the close call. According to the director, the scene was meant to be a dramatic confrontation between Dumelo’s character and a villain, with both actors involved in a physical altercation. However, what started as a routine shot quickly escalated when things took a dangerous turn.

“The scene was quite intense,” Djansi explained. “There was a moment when John’s character was supposed to be attacked by another character wielding a prop knife. It was all part of the script, but unfortunately, something went horribly wrong during the shoot.”

Djansi went on to explain that, in the heat of the moment, the actor playing the antagonist got carried away with his performance. In a sudden and unexpected move, the actor’s prop knife slipped from his hand, and before anyone could react, it flew directly toward Dumelo, who was positioned just a few feet away.

“It happened so quickly,” Djansi continued. “The knife went flying, and it was heading straight toward John. There was no time to warn him. I remember screaming in my head, but everything just froze for a second.”

Thankfully, the actor narrowly escaped injury as the knife missed him by mere inches. Dumelo, who is known for his composure, managed to avoid the potentially deadly accident just in time, but the entire crew was left shaken by the close call.

“There was a moment of sheer panic on set,” Djansi recalled. “We all thought the worst had happened, but somehow, by the grace of God, John was unharmed. It could have been a completely different story.”

The incident served as a stark reminder of the inherent risks involved in film production, especially when shooting action-packed scenes that require physical stunts and props. Djansi admitted that the close call was a wake-up call for everyone on set about the importance of safety precautions.

“We are always focused on bringing the best performances to the screen, but that day, we were reminded of how important it is to prioritize safety,” Djansi stated. “Everyone was so relieved that nothing worse happened, but we also made sure that after that incident, there was a much more strict approach to the handling of props and stunts.”

Despite the shocking nature of the event, Dumelo remained professional throughout the entire ordeal. According to Djansi, the actor was calm and composed, brushing off the incident as an unfortunate mistake but emphasizing the need to stay vigilant on set.

“John was incredibly calm,” she said. “It was one of those situations where anyone else might have panicked, but he remained professional and understood that it was just a freak accident. Afterward, he even joked about it, making everyone feel more at ease.”

The near-miss has since become a topic of conversation among the local film industry, with many expressing concern over the safety of actors and crew members during film production. Several filmmakers and actors have taken to social media to call for stronger safety protocols on set, particularly when it comes to handling dangerous props and executing high-risk scenes.

This incident also highlights the unsung dangers that film professionals face in their pursuit of creating compelling on-screen experiences. While the final product often showcases thrilling moments of action and suspense, the behind-the-scenes reality can sometimes be filled with unforeseen risks.

In the aftermath of the near-accident, Djansi and her team have taken extra precautions to ensure the safety of everyone involved in their productions. The director has committed to implementing more comprehensive safety training and supervision during action sequences to avoid similar incidents in the future.

“We owe it to our cast and crew to ensure that they are safe while doing what they love,” Djansi said. “This was a reminder that, no matter how experienced we are, there are always risks. It’s our job to minimize them as much as possible.”

The frightening incident has, however, not deterred Dumelo from continuing his passion for acting. The popular actor, who has become a household name in Ghana’s movie industry, remains as committed as ever to his craft. In fact, he has expressed his gratitude to the crew for their quick thinking and professionalism in handling the situation.

For now, Dumelo and the team are back on set, continuing to film the project with a renewed focus on safety and precaution. The incident serves as a reminder of how quickly things can go wrong in an environment that demands precision and care, but also of the strength and resilience of those who work behind the scenes to bring these stories to life.

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