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I donated one of my kidneys to my ungrateful husband and now I want it back

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Dear GhanaWeb,

I have been married for eight years and have two kids.

My husband had been suffering from kidney failure for some time. When my husband’s family found out that my kidney was a match for his, they begged me to donate one of mine.

It was heartbreaking to see him in constant pain.

I agreed to do it for him and our two children, who were still young and needed their father.

Despite my own family’s persuasion to not go through with it and let my husband’s family find another donor, I didn’t listen.

My husband’s family was wealthy and influential, so it wouldn’t have been difficult for them to find a donor, but I wanted my husband to get better soon.

I went through the surgery, and the transplant was successful.

My husband was extremely grateful and promised to stand by me for the rest of his life.

Both of us recovered well, and within a few months, we were fine. The next six months were the happiest of my life.

My husband would buy me gifts when he returned from work and take our kids and me on vacations.

He was spending on us, and at times, I felt happy that I had donated my kidney for him.

Things began to change when I fell ill myself. My husband was at work when I fainted.

My younger sister was visiting at the time and was the one who took me to the hospital.

They tried calling my husband, but he didn’t pick up. When he finally did, he told my sister that he was busy.

Throughout the day, my husband never visited me in the hospital. I didn’t take it seriously until my younger sister commented, “You see how he’s treating you after you donated your kidney?” I shut her down, but she persisted, saying, “You always shout at us when we tell you the truth. Why don’t you pretend to be unwell and see if he really loves you as you claim?”

Her words made me think. My sickness turned out to be nothing serious; just a lack of rest, so I was discharged the next day.

When I returned home, my husband was relaxing on the couch.

I asked him why he hadn’t come to visit me at the hospital, and he gave me weak excuses before getting angry and leaving the house.

This made me reconsider my sister’s comment, and I decided to act weak from that point onward. My husband began leaving the house late and sometimes wouldn’t return at all.

He started yelling at me over the smallest things. One day, my husband came home with his family and a woman I didn’t recognise.

I greeted them, and my father-in-law said they had something to discuss. He explained that my husband had complained that I was always weak and couldn’t perform my wifely duties.

My mother-in-law added that the woman would help satisfy my husband’s needs at night and cook for him. They made it seem like they were doing me a favour. I was deeply hurt, but I remained calm and walked to the bedroom.

As I processed what was happening, the woman and my mother-in-law entered the bedroom.

My mother-in-law informed her that the matrimonial room would now be where she would stay with her husband. Then, she turned to me and said I should move to the guest room. I was stunned by what was happening in my own home, but I didn’t say anything.

At this point, I began contemplating how to get back at him. I decided to add illegal drugs and substances that could potentially cause another kidney failure to his food.

I gave him life, and now, I wanted to take it back. His new wife could donate her kidney to him, but as for me, I was taking mine back.

Afterward, I planned to divorce him and take half of his assets. Some of the drugs I gave him were also meant to render him impotent, ensuring that his manhood would no longer function.

I’m acting out of frustration and pain. My family has given me their approval to do whatever I want with him. I’m so confused, and I don’t know what to do. Am I being wicked? Will I be judged if something happens to him?

FG/EB

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‘We will retaliate when we come to power’ – Social media erupts over Dr. Addison’s home raid

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Governor of the Bank of Ghana, Dr. Ernest Addison Governor of the Bank of Ghana, Dr. Ernest Addison

Reports emerged on Wednesday, March 19, 2025, that the residence of former Bank of Ghana Governor, Dr Ernest Addison, had been raided by alleged personnel from National Security.

The operation was reportedly led by Richard Jakpa, the Director of Special Operations at the National Security, and involved approximately 20 armed men.

The raid is said to have occurred at Dr. Addison’s Roman Ridge residence in Accra, where he was present at the time.

Eyewitnesses described how heavily armed operatives, some wearing balaclavas and wielding AK-47 rifles, entered the house and conducted a search of the property.

The incident has sparked outrage on social media, with many users taking to X to express their disappointments and frustrations.

While some described the raid as troubling, others speculated that the New Patriotic Party will retaliate if it regains power in the future.

One user wrote that “If we ever come to power, we will retaliate.”

Another user disclosed that “Jakpa and his thugs arrived at Dr Ernest Addison’s residence at 5 a.m., forced their way in, and searched every room. After three hours without finding any cash, Richard Jakpa handed his phone to Dr Addison to speak with the National Security Coordinator, who offered a so-called apology.

“His cars were then seized and only released after 4 p.m. This sham of a ‘reset’ must be reversed without delay.”

One other user said, “Someone should tell JAKPA That power IS TRANSIENT.”

Read some of the posts from some social media users below:

VKB/AE

Vice Chairman of Budget Committee blasts NDC over projected GDP growth

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Vice Chair of Parliament's Budget Committee, Alexander Agyare play videoVice Chair of Parliament’s Budget Committee, Alexander Agyare

The Member of Parliament for Kade Constituency, Alexander Agyare, has criticised the National Democratic Congress (NDC) government, accusing it of lacking plans for industrial growth.

In an interview on Thursday, March 20, 2025, the New Patriotic Party (NPP) MP highlighted a projected decline in Ghana’s Gross Domestic Product (GDP) growth under the NDC, from the 5.7% achieved during the NPP’s tenure to 4.0% in 2025.

Referring to portions of the 2025 budget statement recently presented to Parliament by the Minister of Finance, Agyare noted that the NDC’s expected output for 2025 represents a drastic decline from the 5.7% handed over by the NPP administration, which left power in January 2025 following the December 2024 elections.

“You made it clear that you were going to reset the economy, fix the economy, and give it a big push. That’s what Ghanaians expect the NDC government to do. But, my brother, if you go into the budget statement, you’ll clearly see that the NDC has nothing in terms of industrial growth. They have no plans,” he stated.

“We left them with 5.7%, yet their expected output in 2025 is 4%. That’s a drastic decline in the economy,” he added.

Contrasting the NDC’s projected GDP with the growth bequeathed to the new government by the NPP, Agyare warned of dire implications for the country, given the overall significance of GDP as an indicator of economic health.

He also questioned the NDC’s economic strategy, referencing President John Dramani Mahama’s description of the economy he inherited as a “crime scene,” despite being able to meet debt schedules since assuming power.

“The President himself described it as a crime scene, using so many names to label it, but they were still able to meet all their debt schedules. They managed to do so much with what was called a crime scene. I think if it was a crime scene, as has been thoroughly described, they couldn’t have done much, yet they still lamented,” he said.

The 2025 budget statement, which marks the first major economic policy by the John Mahama government, has received varied reactions from both sides of Ghana’s political divide.

While the NDC touts the budget as perfect for resetting Ghana’s economy from a broken state, the NPP accuses the NDC of failing to build on the economic foundation they left behind.

GA/MA

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It's a national call – Stephen Appiah implores Ghanaians to watch Black Stars – Chad game

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The gravedigger ‘too busy to sleep’ as Khartoum fighting rages

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Sudan’s army appears poised to regain control of the capital, Khartoum, two years after it was ousted from the city. As the soldiers were preparing to launch the latest offensive the BBC was given rare access to the operation.

Sudan’s people continue to bear the brunt of the war, which has inflicted massive death, destruction and human rights violations on civilians, and driven parts of the country into famine.

In recent months troops had recaptured northern and eastern districts of the capital, and pockets of central Khartoum.

The latest offensive to expand that foothold began a week ago.

We were taken to a rallying point in Khartoum North in the middle of the night.

Troops were in high spirits, singing chanting and whooping as they built momentum for the battle.

By morning the army had advanced. By evening of the next day, it had broken through a key central zone held by the RSF, allowing troops in the south-west of the city to join forces with the military headquarters to the north.

On Thursday the army destroyed an RSF convoy trying to withdraw south from the presidential palace, according to reports.

Footage apparently released by the military showed drones targeting vehicles, and a massive fire, possibly caused by the explosion of ammunition transported by the RSF fighters.

The strategically located Republican Palace complex is the official residence of the president and has historical and symbolic significance in Sudan.

One person undoubtedly cheering on the troops is Abidin Durma, well-known as the gravedigger of Omdurman, a sister city to Khartoum over the River Nile that is part of the capital region.

He is clearly a strong patriot, regularly referring to what he calls “the war of dignity”.

But he also experiences daily its high cost for civilians.

Mr Durma’s ancestors were related to the Mahdi, a 19th Century leader who created the foundations of the Sudanese state and an influential religious movement.

They established the Ahmed Sharfi Cemetery, one of the oldest and biggest in Omdurman.

Now the graveyard Mr Durma has tended for decades paints a vivid picture of the scale of death.

It has expanded on three sides by roughly 10 acres (four hectares), with row after row of brown earth mounds, some marked, some not.

The smell of death lingers in the air above them.

Mr Durma tells me that he and young volunteers bury “not less than 25, 30 or 50 bodies per day”.

That is partly because other cemeteries became unsafe during active fighting in Omdurman, the city is crowded with displaced people, and the health system has been overwhelmed by conflict.

But artillery fire has claimed a large number of lives.

Mr Durma showed me a mass grave for victims of a strike on a school.

One entire section of fresh graves holds bodies of those killed in the shelling of a main market in January: at least 120 people died.

We are told the RSF is responsible, firing into army-controlled areas of Omdurman. But both sides are condemned for war crimes – the military is accused of mass killings elsewhere.

Bodies come straight from the hospital, which calls the grave digger to let him know he needs to prepare for burial. The process is efficient, and fast.

“We bury them right away, because there is no [reliable] fridge,” Mr Durma says.

“The graveyard is safe. The graves are ready. The bricks are ready. The people who bury are ready, inside the graveyard.”

“There is no time to sleep until the last body is buried,” he adds, “and then I sleep for half an hour or 15 minutes, until I get another call. I come back like now, and three, four bodies arrived.

“People die from bullets, from shelling. People are killed sitting in their homes. There is so much death.”

His phone rings again. Another body is ready for burial.

Prayers for the dead have become a regular ritual in al-Mabrouka, a neighbourhood in the western al-Thawra district of Omdurman that is in the line of fire between the army and the RSF.

A group of friends gather around Abazar Abdel Habib at the local mosque to offer condolences, lifting their hands as they recite verses from the Quran.

We had met Mr Abdel Habib at the hospital morgue the previous day, where he was picking up the bodies of his brother and sister-in-law. They had been struck by artillery fire while taking their son to pre-school.

At the family home, a little girl, Omnia, woke up crying, in pain.

She was in her mother’s arms when the shell hit, and escaped with only a foot injury. Her survival is seen as a miracle.

She has been orphaned along with three brothers.

“We’ll tell them exactly what happened, about the shelling and the war,” says Mr Abdel Habib, cradling Omnia.

“They are the generation of the future, we will not allow this to affect them in the future. We will try to make up to them the affection of their mother and father, even though it’s hard. But this is destiny.”

I joined women from the community who had crowded into a nearby room to mourn the dead, as they have done many times during this war.

Three other people were killed in the shelling that same day, including two young boys.

Nothing like normal life is possible, they told me.

“We hide under the beds when the shelling starts,” says Ilham Abdel Rahman, when I asked her how she protects her children.

“One hit our home and killed the neighbour’s girl at the steps of our door.”

Hawa Ahmed Saleh says if there is shelling early in the morning “we go to the market after that to buy food”.

“If it doesn’t happen, we’re forced to sit and wait until the shelling comes, and after it stops, people will go and gather what they need for living.

“The children are always in a state of terror,” she adds.

“Daily we are losing our children. The students cannot settle, there is no studying. There is always a state of fear, we are always in a state of sadness.”

If the army does regain full control of the capital, at least here the shelling will stop.

But the war will continue elsewhere in the country, and its wounds will haunt Sudan for years to come.

Heroes Never Die: A Tribute to the Outstanding Yaw

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Great figures never truly disappear, and Yaw Sarpong’s impact will be felt for years to come. His journey from humble beginnings to becoming a celebrated musician is a testament to his talent, determination, and strong faith.

Yaw Sarpong was born on February 4, 1963, in Accra to an affluent family. His father, Hon. Ernest Moses Opoku, was a Member of Parliament for the Atwima Nwabiagya District under the Convention People’s Party (CPP). However, after the 1966 coup that led to the overthrow of Nkrumah’s administration, Hon. Opoku was imprisoned and later passed away. This tragic turn of events forced Yaw Sarpong and his family to move to Tonto Kokoben, where he spent his early years.

His passion for music was evident from a young age, leading him to join a Methodist singing group in Asuofua, Ashanti Region. In 1971, he was discovered by a doctor who was forming a music group. This group performed at churches and events, and during one of these performances in Asuase, Kumasi, a pastor noticed his talent and offered to mentor him, a proposal Yaw Sarpong gladly accepted.

During a church event, he impressed the renowned Professor Kofi Abraham, who offered him support. His first composition, “Ma te nka se Ohene bi de Yesu,” performed by Professor Abraham, marked the beginning of a long and successful songwriting career, leading to over 26 albums.

Yaw Sarpong later joined Kristo Asafo, where he helped teach music in Accra New Town. He then became part of the Ahensan band, working alongside Wofa Asumani. After his time with Ahensan, he moved to Accra and spent three years as a taxi driver before relocating to Liberia in 1986. While in Liberia, he formed the Asomafo group, which consisted of Ghanaian, Sierra Leonean, and Liberian musicians. His debut album, “Adesrede,” had been released in 1981 before his move.

Yaw Sarpong’s contributions to music have been widely recognized. He was honored with an honorary doctorate in Sacred Music from the Ecclesiastical Bishop Leaders Conference of Africa (EBLCA), affiliated with Kayiwa International University in Uganda, on September 23, 2017. On October 5, 2019, he received the Lifetime Achievement Award at the Ghana Music Awards in London. His commitment to social causes is evident in projects like “The Prison Project” in 2017, which aimed to use music as a tool for positive change.

Although he has faced health challenges and speculation about his well-being, his passion remains undiminished. His songs, rich in emotion and meaning, continue to inspire listeners. Tracks such as “Tenabea Foforo,” “Oko Yi,” “Hwan Na Adwendwene Da No So,” “Wo Haw Ne Sen,” and “Joseph” continue to touch lives and carry messages of hope.

Yaw Sarpong’s legacy goes beyond his music; he stands as a beacon of hope and inspiration. His remarkable performances and uplifting lyrics will forever leave an imprint on the hearts of those who cherish his work, ensuring his influence lasts for generations.

You Called My Father A Nobody And Expected Kristo Asafo Members To Vote For You? Adwoa Safo Quizzes

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Sarah Adwoa Safo, former Dome-Kwabenya Member of Parliament, claims Kristo Asafo members did not vote for Mike Oquaye Jnr in the 2024 parliamentary elections because he used derogatory remarks about her father.

The three-time Member of Parliament noted that the NPP 2024 Dome-Kwabenya Member of Parliament stood on campaign platforms to call his father names, telling the constituents Apostle Safo is an illiterate, who, unlike his father, is not a known political figure in the country.

Upon all this, Adwoa Safo wondered why Mike Oquaye Junior expected members of his father’s church to vote for him in the parliamentary contest. 

Apostle Kojo Safo is a known personality in the country, particularly in the Dome-Kwabenya Constituency. A lot of people in the Dome-Kwabenya Constituency and are members of the Kristo Asafo, underscoring his significance in the constituency.

The NPP’s unexpected defeat in the Dome-Kwabenya contest was attributed to the refusal of the Kristo Safo members to vote for Mike Ocquaye Junior. 

Speaking on Accra-based Joy News, the former Gender Minister expressed shock that, despite using derogatory remarks on his father, Mike Oquaye was expecting members of his church to cast their ballots in his favour.

She touted the achievements of her father, particularly for the less privileged in society, noting that he has been instrumental in the well-being of many Ghanaians. According to her, despite her father’s educational background, he has paid his dues to the country and should not be disrespected.

“You [Mike Ocquaye Jnr] called my father a nobody and a farmer, yet wonder why Kristo Asafo members didn’t vote for you? We revere our father!” She said.

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