Tobey Maguire officiates ex-wife Jennifer Meyer’s wedding to Geoffrey Ogunlesi weeks after divorce, leaves Spider-Man fans stunned: ‘my GOAT is washed’

Hollywood has delivered some unbelievable celebrity moments this year, but Tobey Maguire officiating his ex-wife’s wedding might be one of the wildest yet. The Spider-Man star was not just a guest when jewellery designer Jennifer Meyer married music executive Geoffrey Ogunlesi in Hawaii on October 10. He was the man leading the ceremony, just weeks after his divorce from Meyer was finalised. Ogunlesi is the son of Nigerian billionaire lawyer and investment banker Adebayo Ogunlesi. As pictures from the wedding spread online, people had plenty to say about Maguire’s unexpected role.

Meyer, 49, married Ogunlesi, 34, at the Four Seasons Resort Lanai in Hawaii, surrounded by family and celebrity friends. Maguire, 51, stood at the centre of the ceremony in a dark suit, holding papers and guiding the couple through their vows. Photographs showed Meyer in a strapless white gown and veil as she shared a kiss with her new husband. For many people online, the most surprising part was not the lavish location or the star-studded guest list. It was seeing the actor who played Peter Parker officiate his former wife’s wedding to another man, especially so soon after their divorce became official.

One popular reaction summed up the disbelief with the words, “holy shit Tobey Maguire is the ultimate cuck.” Another user wrote, “we’re reaching new levels of cuck never seen before.” The comments were blunt, and some were deliberately cruel, but they showed just how quickly the unusual wedding moment became internet entertainment. Another post took aim at Maguire’s superhero image, declaring, “The Spider-Man debate is over goodbye Tobey.” For some users, the pictures were an invitation to joke about the actor’s personal life rather than celebrate the couple’s wedding.

Naturally, Maguire’s most famous role became a major part of the conversation. One user joked that the actor was “still playing the hero in real life”, while another offered a particularly memorable take on his famous Spider-Man catchphrase. “Tobey Maguire officiating his ex-wife’s wedding is a level of emotional maturity i’m not sure peter parker was built for bro really went from ‘with great power comes great responsibility’ to ‘with great pain comes great professionalism.’”

The joke captured the strange mix of disbelief and admiration surrounding the photographs. After all, many people struggle to imagine attending an ex’s wedding, let alone standing in front of the guests and leading the vows. Another said, 'toby is the c**k pf the year damn'.

Others were less convinced that the moment deserved praise. One viral reaction described it as “the final boss of the friend zone”, suggesting Maguire had taken post divorce friendship to an entirely different level. Another simply called the situation “a plot twist nobody saw coming”. Yet not everyone thought the actor was being humiliated. Some users argued that the reaction said more about internet culture than it did about Maguire, with strangers turning a private family dynamic into a contest over who had supposedly won or lost a breakup.

Maguire and Meyer married in 2007 after meeting in the early 2000s. They announced their separation in 2016, but their divorce took years to complete legally, with the proceedings finally ending in September 2026. They share two children, daughter Ruby and son Otis, and have continued to maintain a close relationship as co parents.

Meyer has spoken warmly about Maguire over the years, describing him as an incredible father and a close friend. Their relationship after separation has included family celebrations and shared milestones, making their bond rather different from the bitter celebrity breakups people often expect. That history is why some online reactions were far more positive. One Reddit user said, “I do too. Officiating the wedding is what’s odd to some or most rather,” while discussing why the situation could actually be sweet. Another pointed to the children and called the arrangement “a sign that they co-parented peacefully”.

The family dynamic also includes Meyer and Ogunlesi’s baby daughter, born in 2026. The newborn joined Ruby and Otis at the Hawaii celebration, making the wedding a gathering of their blended family rather than simply another celebrity event.

Meyer and Ogunlesi were first linked in 2023 and became engaged in August 2024. Ogunlesi, who runs The Ogunlesi Group, is the son of Adebayo Ogunlesi, a prominent Nigerian lawyer and investment banker whose business interests include major infrastructure investments. His family background added another layer of interest to an already high profile wedding.

The guest list reportedly included Leonardo DiCaprio and his girlfriend Vittoria Ceretti, Jeff Bezos and Lauren Sánchez, Courteney Cox, Rachel Zoe, and Kate Hudson with fiancé Danny Fujikawa. Still, it was Maguire’s role that became the defining talking point once the pictures began circulating.

One Reddit commenter called the moment “kinda wholesome”, adding that it was good to see a family maintain a relationship without hostility. Another joked, “If I had a chance to have freakin’ Spider-Man officiating my wedding I’m asking him.”

Perhaps that is the simplest way to look at it. The internet can turn almost anything into a punchline, particularly when a celebrity and a billionaire family are involved. But Maguire standing beside Meyer as she began a new chapter also offered a glimpse of a relationship that appears to have moved beyond its romantic ending.

Whether people see it as an extraordinary display of maturity or simply an unusual arrangement between former partners, the wedding has left social media with one question: how many people would be comfortable officiating their ex’s wedding? For Maguire, the answer appears to be that some relationships can change shape without disappearing altogether.