Ruth Owusu Boateng Drop Bombshell—Show Me One Ghanaian Man Who Gives Women Money Without Wanting șex

Social media commentator Ruth Owusu Boateng has triggered a lively debate online after posing a thought-provoking question about relationships between men and women.

She asked whether there are still Ghanaian men who are willing to financially support a woman without expecting sexual intimacy or any other personal favour in return.

Her question has generated widespread reactions, with many Ghanaians sharing different views in the comments.

Ruth Owusu Boateng, who is known for openly discussing relationship matters, said she is concerned about what she described as the growing transactional nature of relationships in Ghana. She suggested that even small acts of financial assistance from some men are often accompanied by expectations.

According to her, giving a woman money for airtime, buying her food or paying her transport fare can sometimes lead to the man expecting sexual intimacy in return.

She questioned whether there are still men who support women simply because they genuinely care and want to help, rather than viewing financial assistance as a way to secure intimacy.

Her comments sparked a division among social media users.

Some women supported her position, arguing that genuinely generous men have become increasingly difficult to find. They claimed that some men view financial assistance as an entitlement to a woman’s body, making many women uncomfortable about seeking help from men.

Some men, however, disagreed and argued that women also contribute to the situation. They claimed that some women accept financial assistance from men without reciprocating, while others may receive money from several men simultaneously. According to them, such experiences have led some men to expect something in return before offering financial support.

Others attributed the situation to the current economic difficulties, arguing that financial pressures have made people less willing to give money freely without expecting some form of benefit.

One widely discussed comment suggested that women seeking unconditional financial support should turn to their fathers, arguing that men who are not their fathers may have expectations when they provide money.

Despite the different opinions, Ruth’s question has sparked a broader discussion about kindness, love, money and expectations in modern relationships.

Her comments have also prompted social media users to question whether genuine generosity is disappearing from romantic relationships and whether love has increasingly become transactional.