5 Signs Someone Might Be Lying to You, According to a Former FBI Agent
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Scott Taylor, a former FBI agent and lead interrogator at Guantanamo Bay, has spent years studying deception. His advice, as reported by Metro, is to avoid getting hung up on one nervous tic. Instead, pay attention to sudden changes in behavior around certain questions. And he points to five physical signs that can be a ātellā when someoneās trying hard to sell you a story.
People normally blink around 12 to 14 times a minute, according to Taylor. Stress can increase that rate, although some people actually blink less while theyāre lying and then rapidly make up for it afterward. Researchers have described that burst as a compensatory effect.
You probably arenāt going to sit across from somebody counting blinks like a lunatic. Just notice if thereās a change from how they were acting (or blinking, rather) before.
Lying can trigger a stress response, and one side effect is dry mouth. āWhen people lie, we release cortisol, the stress hormone, and it dries out our mouth and slows down our saliva,ā Taylor said.
Thatās why lip-licking and hard, audible swallowing can happen when someoneās forcing a story. It also happens when people are nervous for completely innocent reasons, so seeing somebody reach for their water glass isnāt evidence of a lie.
People can physically pull back when a question makes them uncomfortable. Taylor watches for things like the torso turning away or the chin dropping, especially when the movement happens at a very particular moment.
Hands drifting up to the face can also signal deception, like tracing their jaw or rubbing their forehead. Again, the change in behavior is what matters, not the behavior itself. Someone who constantly touches their hair or face, for example, could just be them being them.
āTruth tellers convey, and liars convince,ā Taylor said.
This is the person who keeps adding reassurance you never asked for. Theyāre absolutely positive. They definitely remember. Their eye contact becomes weirdly intense because theyāre concentrating so hard on looking sincere.
Anyone whoās ever heard a partner give a 10-minute explanation for why a certain text āmeant nothingā has probably seen this in the wild.
A lie can make ordinary speech sound strangely stiff. Taylor points to people dropping contractions, so āI didnātā becomes āI did not.ā Itās wording that would sound normal in a courtroom and just bizarre while youāre standing in your kitchen.
Liars like to include words like āobviouslyā or ā100%ā when they want you on their side before youāve decided whether you believe them.
Joe Navarro, a former FBI special agent who has written extensively about deception, puts a big asterisk next to all of this. āThere is no single behavior indicative of deception, not one,ā he wrote on his website. Research supports his general warning. A review covering 206 studies and more than 24,000 judgments found that people identified lies correctly only about 54% of the time.
So the person licking their lips while insisting they ādid notā send that text could be lying. They could also just be nervous because youāve been staring at their face for 10 straight minutes, and itās making them feel uncomfortable.
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