“You are not smart if you divorce your husband because he cheated” – TikToker Lopez

According to a Post by Ghanaweb on Sunday, Nov 15, 2026, Ghanaian TikToker Lopez has stirred debate on infidelity and marriage after telling women that walking out on a cheating husband is not a smart move.

Speaking on blogger Zionfelix’s Uncut Show, Lopez said women who end their marriages solely because their husbands have been unfaithful are not thinking wisely. In her view, men having more than one partner is hardly a modern phenomenon, and she traced the practice back to biblical times.

To make her case, she pointed to Abraham and King Solomon, both of whom, she noted, had several women in their lives. She argued that even some of the men Christians hold up as faithful servants of God, and believe to be in heaven, were involved with multiple women. Against that background, she said, women should not expect twenty-first-century men to stay committed to one partner alone.

Lopez went further, urging women to adjust their expectations of relationships and to resist the instinct to leave a marriage at the first sign of infidelity.

She also spoke about her own approach to dating. According to her, she currently places responsibility above loyalty when considering a partner. When she dates, she explained, she looks for a man who can meet his obligations and provide, rather than one who promises faithfulness, because she does not believe she will find a man who stays devoted to a single woman.

Her remarks have added to the ongoing public conversation about fidelity, marital expectations and what women should be willing to tolerate in relationships.

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