Ruth Kadiri Warns Against Pressure Couples Face Afterwards From Hosting Big Weddings

According to a report by The Punch Nigeria on Sunday, October 25, 2026, Nollywood actress Ruth Kadiri has advised couples to avoid elaborate weddings, saying such ceremonies can place unnecessary emotional and mental pressure on marriages.

The actress shared her opinion while speaking about the financial and social expectations often associated with large wedding celebrations.

She noted that some couples spend beyond their means in an effort to impress guests, family members and friends.

Kadiri warned that the pressure created by excessive wedding expenses could continue after the ceremony and affect the couple’s peace of mind.

According to her, marriage should focus more on love, understanding and commitment than on the size or glamour of the wedding.

The actress also encouraged intending couples to plan ceremonies they can comfortably afford instead of borrowing heavily or exhausting their savings to organise a lavish event.

She maintained that a memorable wedding does not necessarily have to be expensive.

In her view, couples should prioritise building a stable home and preparing for the responsibilities that come with marriage.

Kadiri’s comments have generated reactions among social media users, with many agreeing that financial pressure remains one of the challenges faced by young couples.

The actress urged couples to make decisions based on their financial realities and personal values.

She stressed that the wedding ceremony lasts for a day, while the marriage requires patience, sacrifice and continuous effort.

Her advice has renewed discussions about the growing trend of extravagant weddings and the expectations placed on couples by society.

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