Tell us: have you called off a wedding at the last moment?

Have you ever called off a wedding at the last moment? Photograph: simarik/Getty Images/iStockphotoView image in fullscreenHave you ever called off a wedding at the last moment? Photograph: simarik/Getty Images/iStockphotoTell us: have you called off a wedding at the last moment? We want to hear from people who have cancelled a wedding close to the event and why

Calling off a wedding – especially at the last minute – is rarely an easy decision. It can feel disappointing and costly. Even so, it can often be better than going ahead with a marriage simply because the venue is booked and the invitations have been sent.

With this in mind, we want to hear from people who decided to call off their engagement and either cancel or postpone their wedding. What made you change your mind about wanting to get married? How did friends and family take the news? What was the financial and emotional impact? Tell us about it – anonymously if you prefer – below.

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