The man claims his wife cheated for 24 years
A Ghanaian man has shared a shocking account of betrayal after discovering that his wife of 32 years had been involved in a sexual relationship with another man for 24 of those years.
In an interview on Oyerepa FM, the man revealed that he first began to suspect his wife of infidelity after noticing sudden changes in her behavior.
He said he observed her actions for nearly a decade before confronting her family about his suspicions. He informed them that he could no longer continue in the marriage because he believed his wife was having an affair.
However, her relatives advised him to return with his own family so both sides could formally end the marriage, a step he never took.
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“I didn’t have any hard evidence at the time. So I went back home and stayed with her for about ten months, just to gather proof,” he said.
During that period, he decided to secretly record his wife’s phone conversations to confirm his suspicions. One particular incident gave him the confirmation he was seeking.
He explained that his wife had told him she was travelling to attend a funeral, and just before she left, he activated a recording device on her phone. The recording later captured a conversation between his wife and her alleged lover.
In the conversation, the man asked if she was coming alone. When she mentioned she would be bringing someone along, he became angry, complaining that it had been a long time since they last had an intimate encounter.
According to the husband, several other recordings confirmed that his wife had been sexually involved with different men over the years. When he eventually confronted her, she admitted to the affairs, claiming she only did so because she believed he was also seeing other women outside their marriage.
The wife reportedly collapsed after the confrontation.
“It broke me to realise I had been sharing my wife all these years. She told me she only did it because she thought I was doing the same. But for me, marriage meant trust and respect, and that’s what I lost,” he said.
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