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Dear GhanaWeb,
I’ve been married for over five years now. It’s been almost two years since my husband made love to me.
The last time he touched me was two years ago in November.
It all started when I caught him cheating in that same November. I was angry and reported him to his mother to talk to him.
The girl involved was a teenager, she was an SHS student in the area, barely 18 years old.
I was very disappointed, so I spoke to him angrily and told his mom to talk to him. This man got angry and said, he is a man and has the right to do whatever he wants so I should leave him alone.
Since then, till now, he hasn’t touched me. He has even changed his phone password and constantly keeps late nights.
We have only one child, he leaves money for us but won’t be intimate with me. When I last confronted him, he said he hasn’t also had sex all these while so I shouldn’t bother him with it.
I’m really suffering. I don’t know how to touch myself and I don’t want to even use any toy to satisfy myself before I get addicted.
I am thinking of also cheating but it’s hard for me. Two wrongs don’t make a right. I need him to touch me. I’m suffering emotionally. Sometimes I can be horny all day but i just had to suck it up.
I’ve tried seducing him too but it’s not working. Sometimes I feel he is no more in love with me or find me attractive. I want to feel like a woman again. What do I do?
FG/EB
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