Actress Rosemond Brown, popularly known as Akuapem Poloo
Actress and social media personality Rosemond Alade Brown, popularly known as Akuapem Poloo, has explainined why she prefers dating over marriage and why she has never been single.
In an interview with Nana Romeo on Okay FM, Poloo candidly stated that she has always been in a relationship.
“I’ve never been single in my life. The moment there’s a breakup, I’m already with someone else,” she stated.
Poloo, known for her outspoken nature, reflected on her relationship history, stating that she has dated about seven men, with her longest relationship lasting eight years.
Despite having a current partner and plans for marriage, she admitted that the institution itself doesn’t appeal to her as much as dating does.
“Dating is sweeter than marriage. I’m not saying marriage is bad, but I prefer dating. Let’s stay together like a married couple, without the stress of actually getting married,” she added.
She explained that dating feels more dynamic and engaging, while marriage often brings unexpected pressure and emotional strain.
“In dating, there’s excitement, there’s competition. But once that ring goes on your finger, it brings stress. Things change, people become complacent,” she said.
Akuapem Poloo also highlighted the societal and emotional challenges that come with marriage, especially for women. She pointed out that divorce is particularly hard on women, who often struggle to remarry due to societal judgment and expectations.
“This is why many women don’t leave their husbands even when they’re being abused. Men move on easily, but women are expected to wait for someone who will accept their past,” she stated.
Despite her reservations, Poloo revealed she is in a committed relationship and recently welcomed a baby girl; her second child.
“I’m expecting one more child,” she added joyfully.
She also revealed that her partner, the father of her daughter, is currently working abroad in preparation for a possible wedding.
“He left to work because wedding takes money. Plans are underway, but it will only happen when he’s ready,”she said.
Akuapem Poloo emphasised that if marriage happens, it will be by the will of Allah, not something she will force.
“I pray Allah blesses us with a family,” she said, “but I won’t be surprised if I never marry. I’m okay with that.”
She also shared that her mother recently converted to Islam, just as she did three years ago, and now bears the name Aishatu.
In closing, Poloo described herself as a changed woman, noting that her more private lifestyle is a result of both personal growth and her partner’s preference for discretion.
“I’m under control now,” she said with a laugh. “Something is controlling me.”