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Dear GhanaWeb,
I’ve been married for over seven years now and it took us over four years to get our first son. My husband is so handsome and well-built as a man.
Recently, he started acting strange.
I’ve caught him about ten times already this year sucking our three-year-old son’s manhood. The first time, I thought it was nothing. But I saw it again and again so I questioned him and he said it’s nothing, he was just checking if the boy’s manhood was functioning.
I confirmed that our boy is okay. He’s been fine since birth. He gets erection in the morning, and when he’s easing himself, then my husband apologized. But I saw him again and again doing it. He would put it in his mouth and be sucking it.
This boy is little, he doesn’t need to be experiencing what my husband is putting him through. I spoke to him, to find out if he was gay and probably attracted to the boy and he said no, he was just being a father.
Later, he came forth with the excuse that that’s what they do in their tribe. I’ve never heard that any tribe allows fathers to suck their male children’s manhood. I’m not happy with what he’s doing.
I find it strange. I’m beginning to get upset with him and the house isn’t conducive for me anymore. I don’t like it, he promises change and begs me not to tell anyone but he won’t stop. This boy would grow to become something else.
Please what do I do? Is it even true that a tribe from one of the regions of the north does that? I’m worried for my son. He’s too young for his father to be putting him through this.
I want to discuss it with someone at least but I’m just scared. I wake up in the middle of the night and meet him doing this to our innocent son several times. I can’t even leave the child with him for a second without being worried. Should I record and use it as evidence to divorce him?
FG/EB
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