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Dear GhanaWeb,
I’m 22 years old, turning 23 next month and my step-dad is in his late 40s. My step-dad and my mother are no longer together, they’ve already gone their separate ways. He is rich and good looking gentleman.
These feelings became stronger when he kissed and sucked my tongue.
That moment changed everything for me. He likes to flirt with me a lot, though he hasn’t openly confessed his feelings but I can tell he likes me in some way.
Maybe it’s just for sex, but his actions and advances have made me fall in love with him.
I try to avoid going to his house, but my mom stills sends me over every weekend to check on him and the kids.
I’ve told my mother that I don’t like going there but she doesn’t understand.
Being around him makes everything harder for me because I get jealous when I see him with other women.
He is a ladies’ man and often brings different women home and sometimes, I can hear them moaning in the other room.
It affects me in ways I don’t know how to explain.
I get aroused when I think about him and I don’t like these feelings. When he touches me in ways that I feel too intimate, it confuses me even more. We’ve made out many times and it’s been good all the time.
I don’t know if he truly likes me or if it’s just about sex for him.
Either ways, I’ve developed deep feelings that I don’t know how to control.
I have no one to talk to about this and I’m too shy to discuss it openly.
Please don’t judge me. I just need guidance on what to do and how to manage these feelings.
Aside him making me good in bed, he also spoils me with money and every other things.
Lately, he calls me at night and takes me out a lot.
I want to discuss this with my mother, but he asked me to keep it a secret and he will give me everything I want.
I’m confused and I don’t know what to do. I need your advice.
FG/EB
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