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Dear GhanaWeb,
I’m a man who is 32 years of age, single and a chartered account. I have a house, a car, and a huge bank balance but I’m unhappy. I have no one to spend on, aside my parents. Why? Because I’ve been into men.
I look very masculine and have all the qualities every woman would want in a man; women throw themselves at me but I’ve never dated one. I just keep admiring my fellow men and I know it’s morally wrong. I’ve been with a couple of men but I don’t wish to walk in that path anymore.
The last time I was with a man was last month and I’ve vouched never to be with a man anymore. Unfortunately, I still can’t get attracted to a woman, so, I’m just single. I’ve realised this isn’t normal, it’s hormonal but I’m shy and scared to seek help. My physique alone won’t let me seek for help.
I look so much like a man and nothing would make you think a part of me feels like a woman. Sincerely speaking, I wish to had a family but how is that possible when I’ve never hugged a woman. I completely hate their presence, not even as friends. It hasn’t been easy ever since I decided not to be with a man again but I don’t also don’t want to do anything that isn’t morally right.
Funny enough, all the men I’ve had an encounter with made me feel so good. I loved every bit of it because I reached orgasm countless times. Sometimes, I get confused and overwhelmed when I realise the type of men that sleep with me. Some of them are married and others too are in serious relationships. So, I didn’t see anything wrong with me getting attracted to men.
Despite my height and whatsoever, I like to be treated like a woman. I always admire men who treat me like a woman and probably sleep with me. I also wear ladies’ underwear instead of that of men. That’s how serious my condition is. My parents and society expect me to be a man, get a woman, and start a family.
I honestly want to have a family too but how do I put how I feel I am aside and be a man? This breaks my heart sometimes and I’m ready to change. Is there a way I can be helped without being judged? I’m really shy to talk about this to someone. What should I do now?
FG/AE
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