{"id":267420,"date":"2024-12-18T13:05:54","date_gmt":"2024-12-18T13:05:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2024\/12\/18\/my-lovely-wifes-inactiveness-in-bed-is-getting-me-worried\/"},"modified":"2024-12-18T13:05:54","modified_gmt":"2024-12-18T13:05:54","slug":"my-lovely-wifes-inactiveness-in-bed-is-getting-me-worried","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2024\/12\/18\/my-lovely-wifes-inactiveness-in-bed-is-getting-me-worried\/","title":{"rendered":"My lovely wife\u2019s inactiveness in bed is getting me worried"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div>\n<p class=\"article-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.ghanaweb.com\/imagelib\/pics\/940\/94060956.295.jpg\" alt=\"File photo of a man in distress\" title=\"File photo of a man in distress\" width=\"295\" height=\"187\" \/> <span class=\"image_caption\"><span>File photo of a man in distress<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"-webkit-user-select: none; -webkit-touch-callout: none; -moz-user-select: none; -ms-user-select: none; user-select: none;\">\n<p id=\"article-123\"><b>Dear GhanaWeb,<\/b><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m a 31-year-old gentleman, and I\u2019ve been married for three years now. My problem is that my wife does not, in anyway, like sex. I\u2019m married to a very wonderful lady who I can literally give my life in place for. She is everything a man can imagine or dream of having.<\/p>\n<p>She is very intelligent and works with a prestigious company. As young as I am, I\u2019m also doing so well for myself. We both have our own cars and a well-furnished apartment. On countless occasions, when I have tried addressing this issue of sex, I\u2019m either victimised or blamed for something unrelated to the issue.<\/p>\n<p>She one day took me out for a treat just to tell me how bad she felt about our sex life and asked me to be patient with her. I appreciated her and said okay. I\u2019m still patient, but I\u2019m suffering as a man. We have sex at most once a month. Even with that, unless I show some kind of attitude.<\/p>\n<p>She doesn\u2019t like us fighting, so she will just allow me to do what I want to do, but she will rather be lying there without getting involved with whatever is going on. I have done everything within my power and anything you can think of to make her sexually active, but to no avail. Ironically, I would rather counsel people on issues like this, but here I am, in the same situation.<\/p>\n<p>I have gotten to a point where I don\u2019t even find her attractive anymore because I feel like I\u2019m staying with a fellow brother, and she seems to be okay with that. While I\u2019m yearning to have sex with her, she will just be on her phone. <\/p>\n<p>Mind you, I\u2019ve known her for years; we dated for three years, and I was the one who broke her virginity. Her first excuse was that we started having sex before marriage. It is against her religion, but she only allowed me to have sex with her, so I won\u2019t leave her. It gets worse because she doesn&#8217;t even get wet enough like a woman who is about to have sex with her man should.<\/p>\n<p>The excuses are too much for me to handle and I can\u2019t also use this as an excuse to cheat on her. I really love my wife, and I don\u2019t want to lose her. What am I supposed to do?<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>File photo of a man in distress Dear GhanaWeb, I\u2019m a 31-year-old gentleman, and I\u2019ve been married for three years now. My problem is that my wife does not, in anyway, like sex. I\u2019m married to a very wonderful lady who I can literally give my life in place for. She is everything a man [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":260264,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-267420","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-entertainment"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v28.6 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>My lovely wife\u2019s inactiveness in bed is getting me worried - Ghanamma.com<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2024\/12\/18\/my-lovely-wifes-inactiveness-in-bed-is-getting-me-worried\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"My lovely wife\u2019s inactiveness in bed is getting me worried - Ghanamma.com\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"File photo of a man in distress Dear GhanaWeb, I\u2019m a 31-year-old gentleman, and I\u2019ve been married for three years now. 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