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\"\"\"\"Sanaipei Tande openly shared her perspectives on marriage and children, while denying recent allegations of expecting a child.<\/p>\n

During her appearance on the Lynn Ngugi show, the singer\/actress revealed that she first learned of the rumor on social media, where it originated. She mentioned that such rumors no longer bother her.<\/p>\n

\u201cAnd so now rumors don\u2019t affect me. Say it. You say what you want. As recently as last week when I was impregnated by Twitter. What is that?\u201d<\/em> she posed.<\/p>\n

Adding: \u201cJust a random chick decided to wake up and say Sanaipei is expecting. And then her body. That\u2019s what she said. Everybody\u2019s picked up on it and asking me \u2018is it true, is it not?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

Sanaipei Tande reiterated that she will never be drawn into social media discussions about her personal life.<\/p>\n

\u201cI don\u2019t know why after 20 years people have not learned that I will not share my personal information. So even as they ask me, you are talking to a rock. I am not going to respond. And it\u2019s died off. I mean it was last week, now there is something else. You move on, as long as you know deep down in your heart that this is not your truth, it shouldn\u2019t bother you,\u201d<\/em> she explained.<\/p>\n

The \u2018Mfalme wa Mapenzi\u2019 hitmaker discouraged individuals from imposing unnecessary pressure on women to have children. She explained that people experience various struggles in life that ultimately influence their decisions on childbearing.<\/p>\n

\u201cWhat makes you think that you can pressure me into doing things that I\u2019m not able to do at that time yet the people who are the most important to me have not given me that pressure? That person telling you, you haven\u2019t given birth, they won\u2019t help you when you get that child. The person insisting you get a child, they don\u2019t know what you are struggling with. Maybe you are unable to give birth, or you don\u2019t want children, maybe you have a genetic disease in your bloodline that you don\u2019t want to pass onto your children,\u201d<\/em> she said.\"\"\"\"<\/p>\n

Marriage is Not the End Goal<\/b><\/h5>\n

When discussing marriage, the Kalasha-award-winning actress expressed her disappointment in the contemporary notion of considering marriage as an achievement.<\/p>\n

\u201cIt saddens me to see that there are people out there who still look at marriage as an achievement or still look at marriage as the end goal in life. Like you were put on this earth to get married, get children and with that, you are complete? I know I contradict myself because there is a song I said something like that, Mdaka Mdakiwa but lyrics are lyrics.<\/em><\/p>\n

\u201cGo at your pace, marriage is not for everyone, children are not for everyone. There are certain people I have met who say, \u2018I can\u2019t see myself as a mother, I don\u2019t have it in me\u2019. An example is you\u2019d see a baby and feel they are so cute and literally want to eat them but some people are completely indifferent, they want the kid away from them,\u201d<\/em> she explained.<\/p>\n

Ageism<\/strong><\/h5>\n

Sana also addressed comments about her age, emphasizing that no amount of pressure will compel her into something she is not prepared for.<\/p>\n

\u201c\u2026it doesn\u2019t bother me. Whether people say, hana mtu, amezeeka. There\u2019s one comment that I read that said 52 looks good on you and I just laughed, yes it does look good on me. Another thing that people don\u2019t understand is that aging is a blessing.<\/em><\/p>\n

\u201cThere are people who died before they made it to their 20s, people who died before they got to see their goals achieved. There is a generation of individuals who feel that getting old is a curse, it\u2019s unbelievable,\u201d<\/em> said the former radio presenter.\"\"\"\"<\/p>\n

The 38-year-old acknowledged that during the early stages of her music career, people\u2019s comments and opinions used to bother her.<\/p>\n

\u201cI used to care because I was younger and was very impressionable and affected. Then I grew and then I understood that there is black, white and grey. That there are crazy people in this world who would do anything to push a story.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

In conclusion, Sanaipei said she hopes that people will celebrate her for being true to herself instead of conforming to societal pressure.<\/p>\n

\u201cI want people to always know, I was me till the end, I was myself. The fame didn\u2019t change me, the money didn\u2019t change me. I have always been and will continue to be this person and I hope they can borrow from that. That being true to yourself is the greatest gift you can give yourself,\u201d<\/em> she said.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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