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There\u2019s this crazy idea that if you fail Valentine\u2019s Day,\u00a0you shall never be deemed a good boyfriend, lover, or husband. <\/p>\n
Toil mightily in the quest for February intimacy, or be shunned and forced to self-gratify in solitary bitterness forevermore.\u00a0<\/p>\n
So, no pressure. Crazy idea: Try being romantic year-round and forget this over-hyped\u00a0day.\u00a0The biggest things that couples fight about are money, intimacy, work, children, and chores.<\/p>\n
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Here are 5 tiny relationship tips that matter:<\/strong><\/p>\n Fiscal responsibility is hot\u00a0because it helps alleviate stress. Being broke is stressful and therefore kills libido. Work together as a team to budget effectively. <\/p>\n Learn to gain happiness through your relationship instead of buying more and more useless stuff. Who cares if your stupid iPhone doesn\u2019t talk when you have a real person to talk to while you\u2019re both undressed?<\/p>\n Think about how you rather would have played a game with your family,\u00a0rubbed your significant other\u2019s feet, or taken an extra day off here and there to hang out instead of spending more time slaving away over a spreadsheet in a cube farm.<\/p>\n And I\u2019m not just talking about the conception part. You need to be on the same page in terms of how they\u2019re raised. Never try to win your child to your side against the other parent.\u00a0<\/p>\n The best style of parenting\u00a0is\u00a0us versus them. Give your kids a chance to divide and conquer, and they will conquer you both. Bonus advice: women think dads playing with their children is attractive.<\/p>\n You worked all day, but they probably did, too. Think of it as the path of least resistance. Scrubbing some things and dragging a vacuum around and throwing in a load of laundry or unloading the dishwasher is easier than constantly arguing or stressing out about what a pit you live in.<\/p>\n Comparing who did what is a wasted effort that harms relationships. What\u2019s more, it helps if you consider the calories burned from the added workout of not living in a dumpster with a TV and a roof.<\/p>\n More important is to consider your partner in an intimate\u00a0light with regularity, and not just for five minutes at a time when you\u2019re turned on. Show affection,\u00a0write love notes\/send love texts, rub her neck with no expectations, never pass up an opportunity for a quick touch or even a grope, shower together and cuddle often, don\u2019t pout if she\u2019s not in the mood, and don\u2019t make it seem like you just want intimacy. Let her know that what you want is her; that your desire is born out of a love to be with her.<\/p>\n Boycott Valentine\u2019s Day by spreading it out\u00a0with the cumulative effect of 365 days\u00a0of smaller acts of love and romance.<\/p>\n And what will I be doing this Valentine\u2019s Day for my wife? Some pretty romantic stuff, actually, including writing a love letter, giving her flowers, sending the kids off somewhere, and making her a nice dinner for just the two of us.\u00a0<\/p>\n This is because we\u2019ll be celebrating the 21st anniversary of me offering her a sparkly little rock and asking her to put up with me until I\u2019m on the wrong side of the dirt.\u00a0The fact that it happens to be February 14th is purely coincidental.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n1. Spend money on things that matter<\/h3>\n
2. Remember that experiences are more fulfilling than things<\/h3>\n
3. Be on the same page when it comes to raising your kids<\/h3>\n
4. Don\u2019t use chores as a comparison<\/h3>\n
5. Show your partner you love them in ways other than being intimate<\/h3>\n