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A bride is torn whether to go ahead with her\u00a0wedding\u00a0or not after her fianc\u00e9 revealed a shocking bombshell weeks before they are due to say \u2018I do\u2019.<\/p>\n
After years of being committed to a partner, you think you know everything about them and can trust them wholeheartedly. That\u2019s what one bride thought, until she and her\u00a0husband-to-be\u00a0began discussing a cheating scandal in their friendship group, which subsequently exposed the truth about her partner.<\/p>\n
A bride, who wishes to remain unnamed, had always felt secure in her relationship and never had an issue with her \u201csoulmate\u201d partner- Matthew \u2013 being bisexual. While he has previously asked if they can bring in a man to their sexual relationship, the idea was quickly dropped when his partner insisted on a monogamous\u00a0relationship\u00a0only. No issue has come up since, and the pair are due to get married in a few weeks after eight years together.<\/p>\n
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But, Matthew has recently revealed that he cheated on his fianc\u00e9e with a man while on a stag do over a year ago. His partner has asked from some space and their planned and paid for wedding hangs in jeopardy, as well as the future of their relationship.<\/p>\n
The dilemma was shared on Australian podcast\u00a0Everybody Has A Secret\u00a0and left host Eilish Gilligan and her co-hosts stunned, after the bride wrote into the show and asked for help.<\/p>\n
The bride explained: \u201cMatt told me he was bisexual \u2013 which wasn\u2019t and never will be an issue for me. The only complicating factor when it comes to my partner\u2019s sexuality is that he has, for most of his life, kept it a secret. He\u2019s from a very religious family and lots of our friends and loved ones are part of the religious community \u2013 at times made my partner feels isolated and ashamed.<\/p>\n
\u201cOver the course of eight years together, Matt has asked for threesomes with men, to which I have declined. I have been clear. I\u2019m not interested in sexual exploration with anyone but the two of us.<\/p>\n
\u201cJust a few weeks ago, everything took a turn. We were discussing a cheating scandal in our friendship group and one of our mates cheated on their partner. I was explaining to Matt that I was super surprised that our friend hadn\u2019t left the relationship and stuck with the cheating party.\u201d<\/p>\n
The couple then propositioned what would happen if one of them were to cheat on the other and it opened a can of worms. While the bride told her future husband she is not sure she could be with someone that she does not trust, he had a confession to make.<\/p>\n
She added: \u201cMatt went silent for a long time and then told me what he did over a year ago. It turns out that on a drunken party year, Matt got high and had sex with a man. This is a man he\u2019d known for a little while and who happens to be married with children.<\/p>\n
\u201cI became hysterical. I feel completely heartbroken and betrayed. Matt told me the only reason he didn\u2019t tell me is because he doesn\u2019t want to ever risk losing me. He said it was a one off, there was zero communication afterwards, and the two of them essentially blocked it out and pretended it never happened.\u201d<\/p>\n
His partner explained that she \u201cwants to protect him\u201d from their religious loved ones, so has kept the revelation to herself. She told Matthew she wants space.<\/p>\n
The bride continued: \u201cI haven\u2019t told anyone which means I have no shouldered the stress and anxiety all on my own. But part of me also feels frustration and resentment that it\u2019s an easy way to protect him from taking accountability too.<\/p>\n
\u201cHe is deeply trying to win me back \u2013 I really, really love him. I have always thought he was my soul mate but I am not sure I\u2019ll ever be able to trust him again. Should I cancel my wedding?\u201d<\/p>\n
After a video clip of the dilemma was shared on\u00a0TikTok\u00a0by Everybody Has A Secret, hundreds rushed to shared their advice and thoughts. One individual said: \u201cIt sounds like with keeping his bisexuality mostly secret, he hasn\u2019t gotten to explore\/experience enough (for him) and is not ready to commit.\u201d<\/p>\n
Another wrote: \u201cSoulmates don\u2019t have to be romantic \u2013 maybe he\u2019s meant to be her friend forever but not her husband. And that\u2019s okay!\u201d A third advised: \u201cWhat a heartbreaking situation. She needs to leave. The trust has already been broken and he hid it for a full year.\u201d<\/p>\n
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