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These two things I couldn\u2019t control.<\/p>\n<p>This attitude suddenly changed when I met Boatemaa at a supermarket. She is beautiful and her beauty keeps glowing every day.<\/p>\n<p>It was love at first sight which compelled me to approach and take her number. Before she agreed to become my girlfriend, she told me she was a virgin and would only give in on her wedding night.<\/p>\n<p>Her request hit me hard but because I loved her, I agreed to it. This means that I have been celibate for seven years. It wasn\u2019t easy but had to go through with it.<\/p>\n<p>She had a conversation with me one day about her intention to travel abroad to do her master\u2019s. She was straightforward and asked me to help her.<\/p>\n<p>At that moment, I didn\u2019t know how I was going to raise GHC100,000 to fund her traveling dreams but I said okay to her.<\/p>\n<p>I did something crazy that I will never forget. I sold the land I had at East Legon and my car, among other things to raise that money for her.<\/p>\n<p>She travelled last year in August and I hardly got in touch with her. I send her a message and she replies after three days.<\/p>\n<p>I received a message from her on January 1, 2024, and the message read: \u201cHi, Kojo, I want to appreciate you for everything you have done for me. God will replenish your pocket but I do not think you are the right man for me. I am very sorry\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>I embraced celibacy for seven years and sold my house and car all in the name of love and in the end, I got dumped?\u2026 hmm<\/p>\n<p>I want to ask if I have every right to curse her because I am not going to take this breakup lightly.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Source:\u00a0<\/strong>www.ghanaweb.com<\/p>\n<p><!-- AI CONTENT END 1 --><\/p><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dear GhanaWeb, I met this beautiful lady somewhere in 2014. 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