Self-acclaimed life coach, Solomon Buchi has weighed in on the heated debate on whether a man\u2019s wife should be regarded as his family member.<\/strong><\/h2>\nREAD ALSO:Dating Without Fornicating Makes It Easier To Walk Away When You Break Up With Your Partner<\/p>\n
He shared his opinion while reacting to the trending discourse about 24-year-old Moroccan footballer, Achraf Hakimi, whose wife, Hiba Abouk, 36, filed for divorce and allegedly demanded half of his property but got nothing because his properties were in his mother\u2019s name.<\/p>\n
READ ALSO:Hakimi’s Wife Demands Half Of His Property In Divorce Suit, But Player Registers Everything In Mother’s Name<\/p>\n
– –<\/span><\/p>\nIn a series of tweet, Solomon Buchi explained why it was paramount to trust your wife with your finances.<\/p>\n
According to him, if you could not trust your wife with your riches, there was no point marrying her because involving your mother in your finance was weird.<\/p>\n
\n\u201cYour next of kin should be your wife not your mother. Your assets should have your wife\u2019s name on them too. This is biblical marriage; you have become one in Holy Matrimony. If you can\u2019t trust a woman with your riches, don\u2019t marry her. Why marry who you don\u2019t trust with your ALL?
This will probably get a lot of pushback from the redpilled movement, because of the recent Hakimi\u2019s case: a successful footballer whose wife filed for divorce and division of his assets and properties, only to discover that he put all his fortunes in his mother\u2019s name.This will probably get a lot of pushback from the redpilled movement, because of the recent Hakimi\u2019s case: a successful footballer whose wife filed for divorce and division of his assets and properties, only to discover that he put all his fortunes in his mother\u2019s name.
Hence, she has nothing to gain from the incentivized western divorce culture. This seems pragmatic, but it is not right and ideal. I can imagine the mammoth defense that some mummy\u2019s boys will get today. Putting all your fortunes to your mom\u2019s name as a married man is off.
It shouldn\u2019t be so. And yes, women who also marry rich men, with intentions to incentivize the marriage through later divorce are wrong too, but we can\u2019t correct a wrong with a wrong. Literally, the scriptures states that a man needs to leave his father and mother to be married.
This means a re-prioritization: after marriage, your wife becomes your number one. Your mother is still your mother, but you\u2019re not one with her, she\u2019s one with your dad. Respect them, but your immediate priority is your wife, and everything about you, she must have access to.
As much as these sad things happen, I\u2019m trying to reconcile us to how things should be. Christian men shouldn\u2019t be thinking in this manner: willing all you have to your mom as a married man. Nah.
And men, do your due diligence before you marry. If you can\u2019t trust her, don\u2019t marry her, because marriage without trust is like roommates living together. Hakimi did it doesn\u2019t make it right. Don\u2019t start off wrong. Things still work the right way.
Christian marriage is not a place to fight to protect; it\u2019s a place to give. Something must give. Something must be at risk. We don\u2019t truly love, if we aren\u2019t risking anything.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n
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