{"id":1070,"date":"2023-01-03T13:29:01","date_gmt":"2023-01-03T13:29:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2023\/01\/03\/we-dated-for-5-years-he-refused-to-be-intimate-with-me\/"},"modified":"2023-01-03T13:29:01","modified_gmt":"2023-01-03T13:29:01","slug":"we-dated-for-5-years-he-refused-to-be-intimate-with-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2023\/01\/03\/we-dated-for-5-years-he-refused-to-be-intimate-with-me\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8216;We dated for 5 years, he refused to be intimate with me&#8217;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div>\n<p>Fancy Acholonu, the ex fianc\u00e9e of Nollywood actor, Alex Ekubo has made more shocking revelation about his sexuality.<\/p>\n<p>This is coming after the\u00a0Nigerian model made another U-turn days after apologising and seeking reconciliation with ex-fianc\u00e9, Alex Ekubo.<\/p>\n<p>While former love birds got engaged in May 2021, Acholonu suddenly called off their already-scheduled wedding in August of the same year.<\/p>\n<p>On Friday, the model issued a public apology to Ekubo via Instagram, stating that her heart still belongs to him.<\/p>\n<p>Ekubo reacted to the apology with a comment which read, \u201cI appreciate the apology. May God bless us all.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The post has since been deleted.<\/p>\n<p>In an unexpected turn of events, Acholonu took to Instagram on Monday to declare that she is \u201cfree\u201d and that \u201cthe chain is broken.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHappy New Year everyone. 2023 will be my year of strength, being fearless, speaking up for myself &amp; FINALLY no longer under anyone\u2019s control. I\u2019m free, the chain is broken. May God bless us all. #SimplyFancy,\u201d she captioned the post<\/p>\n<p>In an interview with Stella Dimoko Korkus, Fancy Acholonu revealed that for the five years they dated, he never had intimacy with her.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI tried my best. He wanted to get back with me as much as I did. We\u2019ve been at this for one year. But he felt since I broke up with him I should do more of the work. I was fine with that but his methods are cruel and constantly public. His sexuality is not the reason I broke up with him. I\u2019m very open minded so regardless of what he prefers, love is love for me. I loved him for his personality and heart nothing more. He didn\u2019t want to be with me intimately which was confusing and difficult for me to understand especially for 5 years so it did affect my self esteem as I kept myself for him and when he would cheat with curvy women he wouldn\u2019t perform with them either so I don\u2019t know, I can\u2019t confirm or deny his sexuality but for me, I loved him despite all and he still found ways to hurt me.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhen I met him I didn\u2019t have much experience so it was easy to convince me that his decision was because of religion. But as he would constantly cheat and yes I caught him, it would hurt me because that\u2019s not part of the religious believe he made our celibacy to be. Honestly this whole thing has been complicated beyond words so it\u2019s unhealthy for me to continue this relationship. I guess I needed this post he begged me to do so that i can see his intention was just to clean up his image.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>When asked to say something to Alexx through this interview, Fancy Acholonu said: \u201cHonestly I don\u2019t know what to say to him. This has to be the most devastating thing I\u2019ve ever been through, and for it to be so public; I pray we both find healing and peace because it won\u2019t be an easy journey. One breakup statement shouldn\u2019t have led to all this. I wish I never said anything but I am human; I was fed up with good reasons. I pray he doesn\u2019t only focus on people\u2019s reactions but euate his actions too. I also pray he learns to be real and more forgiving with his next person and not be so consumed with having the perfect image because it\u2019s draining to keep that up. My mental health can\u2019t tolerate our relationship anymore.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>));\/**\/<\/script><\/script><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Fancy Acholonu, the ex fianc\u00e9e of Nollywood actor, Alex Ekubo has made more shocking revelation about his sexuality. This is coming after the\u00a0Nigerian model made another U-turn days after apologising and seeking reconciliation with ex-fianc\u00e9, Alex Ekubo. While former love birds got engaged in May 2021, Acholonu suddenly called off their already-scheduled wedding in August [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1070","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","category-nollywood"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v24.2 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>&#039;We dated for 5 years, he refused to be intimate with me&#039; - Ghanamma.com<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2023\/01\/03\/we-dated-for-5-years-he-refused-to-be-intimate-with-me\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"&#039;We dated for 5 years, he refused to be intimate with me&#039; - Ghanamma.com\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Fancy Acholonu, the ex fianc\u00e9e of Nollywood actor, Alex Ekubo has made more shocking revelation about his sexuality. This is coming after the\u00a0Nigerian model made another U-turn days after apologising and seeking reconciliation with ex-fianc\u00e9, Alex Ekubo. While former love birds got engaged in May 2021, Acholonu suddenly called off their already-scheduled wedding in August [&hellip;]\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:url\" content=\"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2023\/01\/03\/we-dated-for-5-years-he-refused-to-be-intimate-with-me\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:site_name\" content=\"Ghanamma.com\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:published_time\" content=\"2023-01-03T13:29:01+00:00\" \/>\n<meta name=\"author\" content=\"Ghana News\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:card\" content=\"summary_large_image\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:label1\" content=\"Written by\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data1\" content=\"Ghana News\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:label2\" content=\"Est. reading time\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data2\" content=\"3 minutes\" \/>\n<script type=\"application\/ld+json\" class=\"yoast-schema-graph\">{\"@context\":\"https:\/\/schema.org\",\"@graph\":[{\"@type\":\"WebPage\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2023\/01\/03\/we-dated-for-5-years-he-refused-to-be-intimate-with-me\/\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2023\/01\/03\/we-dated-for-5-years-he-refused-to-be-intimate-with-me\/\",\"name\":\"'We dated for 5 years, he refused to be intimate with me' - Ghanamma.com\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2023\/#website\"},\"datePublished\":\"2023-01-03T13:29:01+00:00\",\"dateModified\":\"2023-01-03T13:29:01+00:00\",\"author\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2023\/#\/schema\/person\/6f91dab2e50bbbfe895c93e7e84e7f74\"},\"breadcrumb\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2023\/01\/03\/we-dated-for-5-years-he-refused-to-be-intimate-with-me\/#breadcrumb\"},\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"ReadAction\",\"target\":[\"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2023\/01\/03\/we-dated-for-5-years-he-refused-to-be-intimate-with-me\/\"]}]},{\"@type\":\"BreadcrumbList\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2023\/01\/03\/we-dated-for-5-years-he-refused-to-be-intimate-with-me\/#breadcrumb\",\"itemListElement\":[{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":1,\"name\":\"Home\",\"item\":\"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2023\/\"},{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":2,\"name\":\"&#8216;We dated for 5 years, he refused to be intimate with me&#8217;\"}]},{\"@type\":\"WebSite\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2023\/#website\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2023\/\",\"name\":\"Ghanamma.com\",\"description\":\"Ghana mma provides breaking news, top stories in Ghana, Africa, business, entertainment, politics and more.\",\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"SearchAction\",\"target\":{\"@type\":\"EntryPoint\",\"urlTemplate\":\"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2023\/?s={search_term_string}\"},\"query-input\":{\"@type\":\"PropertyValueSpecification\",\"valueRequired\":true,\"valueName\":\"search_term_string\"}}],\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\"},{\"@type\":\"Person\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2023\/#\/schema\/person\/6f91dab2e50bbbfe895c93e7e84e7f74\",\"name\":\"Ghana News\",\"image\":{\"@type\":\"ImageObject\",\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2023\/#\/schema\/person\/image\/\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/22cb97c2b08df229330efb2b8c2645feaae8d3ca3ee434035fbb668b5b82f570?s=96&d=mm&r=g\",\"contentUrl\":\"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/22cb97c2b08df229330efb2b8c2645feaae8d3ca3ee434035fbb668b5b82f570?s=96&d=mm&r=g\",\"caption\":\"Ghana News\"},\"sameAs\":[\"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2023\"],\"url\":\"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2023\/author\/ghanamma\/\"}]}<\/script>\n<!-- \/ Yoast SEO plugin. -->","yoast_head_json":{"title":"'We dated for 5 years, he refused to be intimate with me' - Ghanamma.com","robots":{"index":"index","follow":"follow","max-snippet":"max-snippet:-1","max-image-preview":"max-image-preview:large","max-video-preview":"max-video-preview:-1"},"canonical":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2023\/01\/03\/we-dated-for-5-years-he-refused-to-be-intimate-with-me\/","og_locale":"en_US","og_type":"article","og_title":"'We dated for 5 years, he refused to be intimate with me' - Ghanamma.com","og_description":"Fancy Acholonu, the ex fianc\u00e9e of Nollywood actor, Alex Ekubo has made more shocking revelation about his sexuality. This is coming after the\u00a0Nigerian model made another U-turn days after apologising and seeking reconciliation with ex-fianc\u00e9, Alex Ekubo. While former love birds got engaged in May 2021, Acholonu suddenly called off their already-scheduled wedding in August [&hellip;]","og_url":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2023\/01\/03\/we-dated-for-5-years-he-refused-to-be-intimate-with-me\/","og_site_name":"Ghanamma.com","article_published_time":"2023-01-03T13:29:01+00:00","author":"Ghana News","twitter_card":"summary_large_image","twitter_misc":{"Written by":"Ghana News","Est. reading time":"3 minutes"},"schema":{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org","@graph":[{"@type":"WebPage","@id":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2023\/01\/03\/we-dated-for-5-years-he-refused-to-be-intimate-with-me\/","url":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2023\/01\/03\/we-dated-for-5-years-he-refused-to-be-intimate-with-me\/","name":"'We dated for 5 years, he refused to be intimate with me' - Ghanamma.com","isPartOf":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2023\/#website"},"datePublished":"2023-01-03T13:29:01+00:00","dateModified":"2023-01-03T13:29:01+00:00","author":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2023\/#\/schema\/person\/6f91dab2e50bbbfe895c93e7e84e7f74"},"breadcrumb":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2023\/01\/03\/we-dated-for-5-years-he-refused-to-be-intimate-with-me\/#breadcrumb"},"inLanguage":"en-US","potentialAction":[{"@type":"ReadAction","target":["https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2023\/01\/03\/we-dated-for-5-years-he-refused-to-be-intimate-with-me\/"]}]},{"@type":"BreadcrumbList","@id":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2023\/01\/03\/we-dated-for-5-years-he-refused-to-be-intimate-with-me\/#breadcrumb","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Home","item":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2023\/"},{"@type":"ListItem","position":2,"name":"&#8216;We dated for 5 years, he refused to be intimate with me&#8217;"}]},{"@type":"WebSite","@id":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2023\/#website","url":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2023\/","name":"Ghanamma.com","description":"Ghana mma provides breaking news, top stories in Ghana, Africa, business, entertainment, politics and more.","potentialAction":[{"@type":"SearchAction","target":{"@type":"EntryPoint","urlTemplate":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2023\/?s={search_term_string}"},"query-input":{"@type":"PropertyValueSpecification","valueRequired":true,"valueName":"search_term_string"}}],"inLanguage":"en-US"},{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2023\/#\/schema\/person\/6f91dab2e50bbbfe895c93e7e84e7f74","name":"Ghana News","image":{"@type":"ImageObject","inLanguage":"en-US","@id":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2023\/#\/schema\/person\/image\/","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/22cb97c2b08df229330efb2b8c2645feaae8d3ca3ee434035fbb668b5b82f570?s=96&d=mm&r=g","contentUrl":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/22cb97c2b08df229330efb2b8c2645feaae8d3ca3ee434035fbb668b5b82f570?s=96&d=mm&r=g","caption":"Ghana News"},"sameAs":["https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2023"],"url":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2023\/author\/ghanamma\/"}]}},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2023\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1070","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2023\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2023\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2023\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2023\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1070"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2023\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1070\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2023\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1070"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2023\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1070"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2023\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1070"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}