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Empress Gifty has issued a fiery message to side chicks to stop sucking married men dry at the expense of their wives in a new video shared on social media.
The veteran award-winning gospel musician who has somewhat social media commentator and counsellor shared her thoughts on the trending policeman who gunned down his side chick after their relationship spiralled south suddenly.
Empress Gifty questioned why young women are so drawn to married men and asked whether having sex with a married man is any different from having sex with a boyfriend.
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“I want to ask if sex with married men is different. How does it feel like? Is it different from the ones you have with your boyfriends’? she asked during a Facebook live video.
“If the insecurities start, it’s either they shoot or poison you. He will poison you to death. Anyone who dates a married man should be careful. It’s okay, whatever you have gained is enough. Pack and leave. Unless you tie him down somewhere or use charms on him. He will never leave his wife.
“The first sign to look out for is insecurities. When you start seeing that, leave! The second sign is that he will get abusive. He will start beating you in public and embarrassing you in front of your friends,” she stated.
The gospel singer cautioned ladies against dating married guys and encouraged them to exercise caution. She also cautioned against expecting such relationships to end in marriage.
Delving into her counselling expertise, Empress Gifty encouraged ladies to break off a relationship with a married guy if he starts acting irrationally or abusively.
The ‘Aseda’ hitmaker admonished ladies who were already in such relationships to be cautious and go carefully. She advised fasting and prayer as a first step, pleading with God to assist the married guy in turning away from them. She also counselled women against having sexual relations with the married man.
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“With such relationships, you don’t break things off just like that. You need to be tricky and careful. Start with fasting. Immense him in the blood of Jesus and ask God to help him take their eyes off you. Stop giving him sex,” she added.
Ultimately, Empress Gifty wants young women to value themselves and avoid engaging in relationships that are not in their best interest.