{"id":990059,"date":"2022-02-14T12:30:53","date_gmt":"2022-02-14T12:30:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/02\/14\/woman-22-dating-older-man-dumps-him-instantly-after-googling-his-house\/"},"modified":"2022-02-14T12:30:53","modified_gmt":"2022-02-14T12:30:53","slug":"woman-22-dating-older-man-dumps-him-instantly-after-googling-his-house","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/02\/14\/woman-22-dating-older-man-dumps-him-instantly-after-googling-his-house\/","title":{"rendered":"Woman, 22, dating older man dumps him instantly after Googling his house"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Plenty of women Google men before they first meet up with them, as there\u2019s no telling what you might find out. <\/p>\n

But you might not think to look up their houses.<\/p>\n

One woman, who was\u00a0dating\u00a0an older man, took to Reddit to beg for advice when she was repeatedly having the same argument with him.<\/p>\n

But afterwards, she\u00a0posted an update\u00a0revealing she\u2019d looked up his property and learnt something that made her block him immediately.<\/p>\n

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The woman, who is 22, explained she had been dating the 35-year-old man since meeting through a shared hobby.<\/p>\n

He was regularly coming to stay in her apartment building but was constantly moaning about the noise her neighbours made.<\/p>\n

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The older boyfriend was angry about his girlfriend\u2019s noisy neighbours\u00a0(\u00a0Image:\u00a0Getty Images)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

\u201cSo, in my apartment, since it\u2019s an old house that was originally a single-family house, there isn\u2019t much soundproofing. And the floors creak when people move,\u201d she wrote.<\/p>\n

\u201cI\u2019ve gotten used to the sound of the guy upstairs getting up at 4 am since he starts work at 5.<\/p>\n

\u201cAnd the sound of the girls in the apartments to either side of mine watching telenovelas till midnight, taking work calls all day and having friends over on weekend nights.\u201d<\/p>\n

She continued: \u201cWhen my boyfriend started coming over more often, he had complaints about the neighbours. Which put me in an awkward place, he wanted to go speak to them or have me text them and I said no.\u201d<\/p>\n

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The woman Googled her boyfriend\u2019s house and got a big shock\u00a0(\u00a0Image:\u00a0Getty Images)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

The woman added: \u201cI got frustrated with my boyfriend and told him \u201cyou know, you can\u2019t expect to date a \u2018hot young\u2019 22-year-old and not wanna deal with a 22-year-olds living situation! I don\u2019t know if you realise but this is a normal apartment for someone my age\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n

She explained that she couldn\u2019t stay at his house because he lived too far away and there were no good transport links.<\/p>\n

Several users replied to tell her the age gap was a \u201cred flag\u201d and that the man was being unreasonable.<\/p>\n

But the woman returned to reveal there was an update to the story \u2013 she had looked up his house and discovered he co-owns it with another woman who has the same surname as him, leaving her worried he was secretly married.<\/p>\n

\u201cI don\u2019t know if she\u2019s his wife or ex-wife or what but I\u2019m OUT OF HERE. I\u2019m honestly freaking out right now but I just gotta say .. great big thank you to everyone who noticed red flags and made me question that,\u201d she wrote.<\/p>\n

\u201cI\u2019ve blocked his number, he can have fun figuring out where I went.\u201d<\/p>\n

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Plenty of women Google men before they first meet up with them, as there\u2019s no telling what you might find out. But you might not think to look up their houses. One woman, who was\u00a0dating\u00a0an older man, took to Reddit to beg for advice when she was repeatedly having the same argument with him. But […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":206493,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[549],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-990059","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-lifestyle"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/990059","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=990059"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/990059\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=990059"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=990059"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=990059"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}