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<\/div>\nRelationships can be tricky and there\u2019s certainly no one size fits all approach.<\/p>\n
But most people would say that being honest with each other is the most essential part of any relationship \u2013 and that it\u2019s over when the trust goes.<\/p>\n
One woman who decided to cheat on her partner thinks differently, however \u2013 and thinks her boyfriend has turned a blind eye.<\/p>\n
Marketing consultant Chloe, from Lincoln, started her first affair just weeks before her 30th birthday because she craved more exciting sex.<\/p>\n
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She says she was stuck in a rut with her long-term boyfriend and dubbed the sex \u2018boring\u2019.<\/p>\n
She said: \u201cWe had become that classic Sunday morning couple \u2013 having sex like clockwork every Sunday morning at the same time, in the same position and in the same way.<\/p>\n
\u201cI could set my clock by it every week when he would roll over and say: \u2018hi gorgeous.\u2019<\/p>\n
\u201cI was dying for a little more excitement and picked up a fella on a night out with the girls a few weeks before my 30th birthday.<\/p>\n
\u201cWe had nowhere to go so we ended up having sex in little wooded area in a park near my home.<\/p>\n
\u201cI found the sex incredibly exciting and knew that one affair was not going to be enough for me.\u201d<\/p>\n
A friend of Chloe\u2019s had been using\u00a0IllcitEncounters.com, the UK\u2019s leading affairs site, to meet wealthy lovers and suggested she give it a try.<\/p>\n
Chloe has had two affairs with men in the last two months.<\/p>\n
She said: \u201cThe first was with a chef who is stuck in a sexless marriage and just wants a bit on the side to have some fun with.<\/p>\n
\u201cWe went out for a drink and then had sex in the back of his car after driving to a nearby beauty spot.<\/p>\n
\u201cIt was fun bonking on the back seat \u2013 I hadn\u2019t done that since I was a teenager.<\/p>\n
\u201cI had a second affair with a pub owner who I met on IllicitEncounters.<\/p>\n
\u201cHe has an open relationship with his wife and we had sex in the flat over one of his pubs just after Christmas.\u201d<\/p>\n
Chloe doesn\u2019t feel guilty about cheating on her boyfriend.<\/p>\n
She said: \u201cWe have just bought a house together and I do love him and want to stay with him. I have always been more adventurous about sex and he has accepted that. I think he turns a blind eye to my affairs.\u201d<\/p>\n
Chloe was speaking as a new survey by IllicitEncounters.com revealed the top ten cheating treats of men and women.<\/p>\n
In tenth place on both the men and women\u2019s lists was being spurred to have an affair by being in the last year of a decade \u2013 29, 39, 49 etc \u2013 like Chloe.<\/p>\n
The most popular cheating trait for both sexes was one or both parents being cheats, too.<\/p>\n
IllicitEncounters.com sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: \u201cIf your partner is approaching a milestone birthday such as 30 or 40 you need to be extra vigilant.<\/p>\n
\u201cStarting a new decade forces people to reassess their lives and they often end a failing relationship, or cheer themselves up by having an affair.\u201d<\/p>\n
IllicitEncounters.com has enjoyed the busiest start to a New Year in its 19 year history as fears over the pandemic ease.<\/p>\n
It is expecting a 23 per cent rise in subscriptions over the next six months as people make up for lost time and start new affairs now they know the new\u00a0Omicron\u00a0variant is less virulent.<\/p>\n
Top ten cheating traits for women<\/strong>:<\/p>\n 1 One or both parents were unfaithful, too.<\/p>\n 2 Has a boob job, uses Botox or other cosmetic enhancements.<\/p>\n 3 Dyes her hair<\/p>\n 4 Enjoys\u00a0Love Island<\/p>\n 5 Cat lover<\/p>\n 6 Likes music of Adele<\/p>\n 7 Drinks pinot grigio<\/p>\n 8 Drives Mini<\/p>\n 9\u00a0Libra\u00a0star sign<\/p>\n 10 Last year of the decade \u2013 aged 29, 39, 49 etc<\/p>\n Top 10 cheating traits for men<\/strong><\/p>\n 1 One or both parents were unfaithful, too.<\/p>\n 2 Tall<\/p>\n 3 Likes rugby<\/p>\n 4 Likes rock music \u2013 favourite band ACDC<\/p>\n 5 Wears aftershave<\/p>\n 6 Drives BMW<\/p>\n 7 Drinks lager<\/p>\n <\/p>\n