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Hi Chris,<\/em><\/p>\n I have some real feelings for a great guy, but somehow they\u2019re not being returned. We never seem to meet together on our own, and if I suggest that just the two of us should go somewhere, he changes the subject. <\/em><\/p>\n He only comes round when it suits him, talks about other girls he\u2019s dating, and never touches me or says anything really flirty to me. <\/em><\/p>\n Do you see what I mean? Somehow he doesn\u2019t seem to have the feelings for me that I have for him. What\u2019s going on? And is there anything I can do about it?<\/em><\/p>\n Not being Returned<\/em><\/p>\n Chris says, <\/strong><\/p>\n Hi Not Being Returned!<\/p>\n You\u2019re in his friendzone. Perhaps he\u2019s already in a relationship, doesn\u2019t really want one right now, or has some emotional baggage, like a crazy ex. Or maybe you\u2019re just too different from his usual squeeze.<\/p>\n So if you can\u2019t get romance out of your mind, you\u2019ve some work to do to get him to see you as a girlfriend. Fortunately, guys always have sexual thoughts about a female friend. But if you don\u2019t take the initiative, things will just stay the way they are.<\/p>\n Start by showing him that you\u2019re desirable. So when you\u2019re hanging out with him and his mates, flirt with anyone who hits on you. Be \u2018too busy\u2019 to hang out with him all the time, so he realises you aren\u2019t at his beck and call. Date other guys, and have a life of your own.<\/p>\n And flirt with him, because otherwise he really might never realise you\u2019re romantically interested in him. Keep your body language subtle and ambiguous, touch only the public parts of his body, and make goodbye\u2019s quick and simple. Brief hugs, and no kissing, especially not on the cheek.<\/p>\n Help him see you in a new light by really dolling yourself up for your weekend girls night. Let your sexy side show through your usual fun and friendly self, so he stops seeing you as just a sweet thing and realises that there\u2019s just a hint of the bad girl in you, and somehow he\u2019s not seen it before.<\/p>\n Get into the best shape of your life, because he\u2019ll be impressed if you\u2019re obviously fit, healthy and happy. And fill your life with things that make you feel cheerful and confident.<\/p>\n In other words, send the message that you\u2019re sexy and available, without being too obvious about wanting him. And give him plenty of opportunities to say something.<\/p>\n What if he still doesn\u2019t make an approach? Then a relationship with him simply isn\u2019t meant to be.<\/p>\n And for the future, the next time you go out with a new guy, make it absolutely clear that you\u2019re going on a DATE together. Because if that works out, you\u2019ve straightway got a boyfriend!!<\/p>\n All the best,<\/p>\n Chris<\/p>\n<\/div>\n Source: The Standard Media Kenya<\/a> <\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Hi Chris, I have some real feelings for a great guy, but somehow they\u2019re not being returned. We never seem to meet together on our own, and if I suggest that just the two of us should go somewhere, he changes the subject. He only comes round when it suits him, talks about other girls […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[55],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-919430","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","category-headlines"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/919430","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=919430"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/919430\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=919430"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=919430"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=919430"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}