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<\/div>\nAnyce thought she was in a normal, happy relationship with the man of her dreams \u2013 until she discovered he was leading a secret double life.<\/p>\n
The couple have been together since 2020 after meeting on Tinder.<\/p>\n
Early on in their relationship, the man told Anyce that he was separated from his wife \u2013 but she\u2019s recently discovered that wasn\u2019t the case and he\u2019s still married and splitting his time between the two, unsuspecting women.<\/p>\n
She took to\u00a0TikTok\u00a0to explain the horrifying situation under the username\u00a0@anyceg, explaining the revelation has left her \u201cdevastated\u201d.<\/p>\n
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She also shared the message she sent to the man\u2019s poor wife, insisting she she \u201cnever wanted\u201d the other woman to be \u201churt\u201d.<\/p>\n
She said: \u201cLady, you deserve to know that I was in a relationship with your husband in 2020. I met him on Tinder in April 2020, we met in person shortly after and he told me upfront that you\u2019d been separated for three years.<\/p>\n
\u201cI found out he was lying when I decided to make a phone call and I found out he\u2019d been lying all along.<\/p>\n
\u201cI was devastated and it really affected me for a long time, I really believed everything he told me and I thought we were in love and we would have a future together.<\/p>\n
\u201cI have no idea what your situation really is but what he did to me I can only assume he did to you, woman to woman I never wanted you to be hurt.\u201d<\/p>\n
Anyce finished her message by wishing the man\u2019s wife \u201call the best\u201d, and explained to her TikTok followers that it was \u201cthe hardest message that I\u2019ve ever had to write\u201d.<\/p>\n
In a follow-up video, the woman said she had since spoken to the man\u2019s wife on the phone about the situation, and explained she now \u201cregrets\u201d not telling her sooner.<\/p>\n
She said: \u201cShe was gracious and she was grateful to me but she did wish that she\u2019d known sooner. I shouldn\u2019t have waited a year to get the courage to tell her that\u2019s my biggest regret.<\/p>\n
\u201cIf you know someone who is cheating, speak up.\u201d<\/p>\n
The woman also said she was sharing her story to \u201cset a good example and give hope to others\u201d \u2013 and commenters applauded her for her actions.<\/p>\n
One person wrote: \u201cThank you for being a real woman! We need to bring the village back and reinstate the \u2018girl code\u2019. I\u2019m sorry you\u2019ve been hurt. You rock.\u201d<\/p>\n
While another said: \u201cI am a man of integrity and I felt this was one of the most courageous things I\u2019ve ever heard in my life. I hope more men watch this video.\u201d<\/p>\n
And a third added: \u201cFrom the standpoint of a woman who was cheated on by my husband for many many years: you did the right thing.\u201d<\/p>\n
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