{"id":762807,"date":"2022-01-23T14:10:21","date_gmt":"2022-01-23T14:10:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/01\/23\/worst-fear-is-the-suffering-of-other-people-tongans-fear-never-seeing-loved-ones-again\/"},"modified":"2022-01-23T14:10:21","modified_gmt":"2022-01-23T14:10:21","slug":"worst-fear-is-the-suffering-of-other-people-tongans-fear-never-seeing-loved-ones-again","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/01\/23\/worst-fear-is-the-suffering-of-other-people-tongans-fear-never-seeing-loved-ones-again\/","title":{"rendered":"\u2019Worst fear is the suffering of other people\u2019: Tongans fear never seeing loved ones again"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/01\/9c3817df-e76a-505e-b632-48a6b2d72667&#038;operation=CROP&#038;offset=0x189&#038;resize=3600x2022.jpg\" \/><\/p>\n<div><!--sse--><\/p>\n<p>&#8220;The worst fear is always that you&#8217;re not going to see the people that you love again,&#8221; says Seini Taumoepeau, a Tongan-Australian artist and activist based in Sydney, as she waits to hear from her family after Tonga&#8217;s volcanic eruption and tsunami.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;The worst fear is the suffering of other people, that&#8217;s hard to cope with. Probably even more than your own suffering,&#8221; Taumoepeau says as she holds back tears.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div>\n<p>Taumoepeau, who was born in Australia but spent part of her childhood in Tonga, said she has &#8220;hundreds of close and extended family members&#8221; across villages and towns in the Pacific archipelago, but stresses that all Tongans feel a kinship with each other.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Our ability to empathise with each other is quite massive,&#8221; she said. &#8220;When somebody else loses a parent, we all feel it.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Taumoepeau returned to Australia when she was eight. She has yet to have contact with any of her relatives in Tonga since the Hunga-Tonga-Hunga-Ha&#8217;apai volcano erupted, which damaged the island nation&#8217;s main undersea communications cable.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div>\n<p>With telephone and internet links severed, relatives in Australia and New Zealand are praying for their families.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;At the moment we&#8217;ve had no contact at all with anyone from Tonga since &#8230; before the volcano had hit and then everything went dark,&#8221; said Taumoepeau.<\/p>\n<p>Seeing footage of the destruction to the island being broadcast around the world has added to the sense of disbelief.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div>\n<p>&#8220;It kind of comes to life right in front of your eyes, and especially being able to have satellite footage and that kind of thing, it&#8217;s really quite, almost a disembodying feeling.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Tonga&#8217;s small outer islands suffered extensive damage from the volcanic eruption and tsunami, with an entire village destroyed and many buildings missing, a Tongan diplomat said on Tuesday, raising fears of more deaths and injuries. <\/p>\n<p><strong id=\"strong-de83efa739ab1f0b6a6a887e067cb599\">Reuters<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;The worst fear is always that you&#8217;re not going to see the people that you love again,&#8221; says Seini Taumoepeau, a Tongan-Australian artist and activist based in Sydney, as she waits to hear from her family after Tonga&#8217;s volcanic eruption and tsunami. &#8220;The worst fear is the suffering of other people, that&#8217;s hard to cope [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":762808,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[56],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-762807","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-world"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/762807","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=762807"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/762807\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=762807"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=762807"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=762807"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}