{"id":1268022,"date":"2022-12-20T15:36:08","date_gmt":"2022-12-20T15:36:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/12\/20\/we-will-live-together-have-kids-have-joint-accounts-but-we-will-not-get-married\/"},"modified":"2022-12-20T15:36:08","modified_gmt":"2022-12-20T15:36:08","slug":"we-will-live-together-have-kids-have-joint-accounts-but-we-will-not-get-married","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/12\/20\/we-will-live-together-have-kids-have-joint-accounts-but-we-will-not-get-married\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8216;We will live together, have kids, have joint accounts, but we will not get married"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div>\n<p>Tega Dominic, a Big Brother Naija alumni sets a couple of tongues wagging after she made a disclosure via her Twitter platform.<\/p>\n<p>Tega, who had sparked outrage following her shenanigan with fellow ex-housemate, Pere Egbi during their season took to the micro-blogging platform, Twitter, where she shared a list of what she expects from her potential lover.<\/p>\n<p>The list consists of things he expects from a loyal male friend in a relationship that would not lead to marriage.<\/p>\n<p>According to her, she would love a loyal male friend, who would serve as a confidant and a companion, have kids together, and live together. However, in all of these, there would be no legal binding.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI want a loyal Friend, confidant, crazily in love, companion, a partner, we can have kids, live together, have our lives together, build our lives together, make money even have joint accs, but not married\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The controversial former Big Brother Naija housemate had earlier opened up on how she deals with trolls.<\/p>\n<p>For the single mother of one, she believes she\u2019s better than anyone hiding under the keyboards to attack her.<\/p>\n<p>Tega\u00a0Dominic further said she handles trolls by laughing at them.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>She also recounted a period when her management tweeted that her mental health was being affected and she was not comfortable with it.<\/p>\n<p>According to\u00a0Tega\u00a0Dominic, that tweet was false and her posts were a reflection of how she felt during that period.<\/p>\n<p>Tega\u00a0Dominic made these statements on her talk show, \u2018The Pandora Show\u2019. She said, \u201cThere was a time my management made a tweet about my mental health being affected. When I read that tweet, I said to myself, \u2018Me, mental health? Where is my mental health going? How did it happen?\u2019 I told them (management) that they didn\u2019t show me before tweeting. They said it was because they knew I would not allow them to put out the tweet. They said at that time it was the best idea to go through.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cSometimes, I don\u2019t forgive myself; I feel like fighting myself for that single tweet. I cannot be saying something that is not real. Anything I tweet is how I feel at that moment. I don\u2019t think I can say I am emotional when I am not. It\u2019s not possible.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Tega\u00a0Dominic also recounted how she and her son were bullied on Instagram, stating, \u201cThere was this time someone bullied me and my son. I went to the person\u2019s page and realised that the person recently opened the account. In my mind I was like, \u2018This person cannot even face me with his real account and speak to me directly\u2019. That means I am way above the person. You will never see someone who has a blue tick on Instagram bullying another person. I just gave myself courage and said, \u2018This cannot be it\u2019.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI may be getting trolled and my assistant or sister will come to my room and see me laughing. I have fine legs and I may look at the troll\u2019s legs and say to myself, \u2018My legs are even finer and this one is talking\u2019. There is always something to massage my ego. I have never seen trolling and bullying in my life like the past one year. The people that have been there before me, I wonder what they have been facing.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Tega Dominic, a Big Brother Naija alumni sets a couple of tongues wagging after she made a disclosure via her Twitter platform. Tega, who had sparked outrage following her shenanigan with fellow ex-housemate, Pere Egbi during their season took to the micro-blogging platform, Twitter, where she shared a list of what she expects from her [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[35],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1268022","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","category-nollywood"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1268022","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1268022"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1268022\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1268022"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1268022"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ghanamma.com\/2022\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1268022"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}